We have been sharing an appartment for 3 mnths now. Or should I still wait?
2006-07-12 00:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by lana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We had talked about it manny times. He wants to get married, just not now. I left my country for a year telling him he has that time to decide what he wants. I am sort of sick of waiting. I want to be proposed to, but I'm thinking, maybe it is the only way to really get to the bottom of his unwanting to do it. We are 25.
2006-07-12 09:11:31 · update #1
Is he ready for marriage? Have you talk about marriage? Don't yourself out there if he's not ready..But don't keep giving him the married life without the real thing..
2006-07-12 01:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly_r_60429 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After a 5 year relationship and living together together for 3 months, I'd say you should sit down and discuss where this is all going. That's a long investment of your time. If he has no intention to taking it to marriage and that's what you want, it's best to know now. I wouldn't push, but at least be mature enough to talk about it. You'll get a better feel of the situation and his feelings about long term commitment. Good Luck.
2006-07-12 01:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES Yes Definately
i just got engaged to my friend of 6 years
Best of Luck
2006-07-12 01:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said u share a appt. if u think the feels the same way but he cant express it then try to b a bit close to him. if u think that isnt the case then wait a 2 months if same is the condition express it out.
2006-07-12 00:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a long time, you should know in your heart by now.
If you wanted to see how things would work out by living together first, 3 months is too short of time.
When it's right, YOU GO GIRL!!!!!
2006-07-12 00:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you want to be proposed to? Maybe he hasnt asked you yet because he isnt ready yet....and you dont want to get a "no" for an answer do you?
2006-07-12 00:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by bill6866 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be out of your mind. That is a man's job. If you did that, I would consider you pathetic and I'm sure a lot of people would agree with me. Just be patient
2006-07-12 02:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to marry you, he would have proposed by now.
2006-07-12 02:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if yall are deeply in love and yall been together for 5years i think yall should do so but make sure u know that u wanna spend ure life with this person iight gone
2006-07-12 00:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by cup-cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its should be the other way round, your boyfriend propose you.
2006-07-12 01:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋