2006-07-12 00:35:19 · 22 answers · asked by river2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends on what makes you happier and satisfied. A job - or your "love". If the job is good shows a promising future and you really like the area you're living in that's a major consideration - to move for love - you really have got to be married or darn close to it, trust your deep instincts and use your mind and not just your heart to make a decision you can live with 3, 4 or 5 years down the road. With love, it's so unpredictable and fleeting and once gone you're stuck in a city you may not like doing a job you hate and regretting ever leaving what you originally had. If it were me and I wasn't married to the person - ain't NO way I'd leave something so good to take a risk on something that could blow up in your face. I would stay put. Just my 2 cents. good luck
2006-07-12 00:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, people will do anything for love. No, you are not stupid if the person you are doing it for is worth it. Look on the bright side. You may find a better job in the city you are moving to. Good luck.
2006-07-12 00:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think love is life .it's the summit of life.so definately it should be on top of ur priorities but at the same time u must also think that how much necessary is for u to leave ur job.will u not find ur love if u don't leave the job?
if u can find love &also keep ur job ,this would be the best &u should try every bit for this.
otherwise just leave this &i am sure u'll get another soon.
but do it only when ur partner or lover has the job for timebeing because u do need bread &butter to love &live.
2006-07-12 00:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by george 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not stupid u can always find another job..u have to do whatever u feel is right for u..as long as its a healthly relationship not abusive and both party agree its in the best interest for each other i say y not go for it..after all money cant buy happiness
2006-07-12 00:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends....can the person you're leaving ur job for and moving for support u if u are unable to find a job there? Or unable to find a good one? Is this person willing to do that? What if the two of u end up breaking up when u get there? There are many factors to look at......personally, I wouldn't do it unless the relationship is secure (ie..a proposal has been made)
2006-07-12 00:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 03:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Love is one the most powerful things ever to exist!
Love is stronger than death and many waters cannot quench it.
Wanna know how strong love is?Makes many people leave their mother and father who raised them up for more than 21 years for a man they just met last year! That is how strong love is!
My advice: Be guided by love but also be wise.How about waiting for him to propose? I think it is wise to do that! Don't be ashamed to let him know that! Don't even be ashamed to let him know that if he wants to enjoy all of you, he needs to take pains for it....
He should'nt have to enjoy what husbands enjoy without to take efforts for it!
Especially sex. If he has sex with you outside marriage, he will not respect you in marriage.
By the way....A MAN WROTE ALL THIS!
Cheers!
2006-07-12 00:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hope Dollar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ynot, for me true love is something that is very very hard to find. Job is something material......there could be better jobs available at the other city. All u need to do is go look for it. ......if possible try not to leave your great job...but try to find other alternatives..M sure you''ll find it.
2006-07-12 00:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not stupid... but i hope you find another job before you actually quite this one... there are alot of " great jobs" out there i would say dont move too fast ....love sometimes falls apart when finances are hard sorry to say but its true....Anyway good luck to ya..
2006-07-12 00:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I sure would leave a great job for my boyfriend...Well, were engaged now..But I would go, espically if it was true love!
2006-07-12 00:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋