I was kissing my boyfriend and we got a little closer. I felt his **** was hard. I know what it means. So i just ignored it. I dont want to do it with him cuz i think im too young. We have been together for years. We touch while we kiss and i think that is making it happen. But i dont want to just tell him dont touch me while we kiss. and i dont want to point it out while we are kissig. What do i do?
2006-07-12 00:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by Angel$For$Ya 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he wont stop if you feel uncomfortable while he is doing this let him know if he respect you he should stop if not then stop it all
2006-07-12 01:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by just_gethere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You b/f is going to do that anyways, even if you dont touch. Just kissing makes it happen. Its a natural thing that happens. But your right, DONT HAVE SEX! But he is still going to get hard, and you will probably experiance something with your privates too. But is fine, its going to happen
2006-07-12 00:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by only14life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me he know what takes him there. Just let him know ur not ready to have sex. And if he keeps with the touching it's not ur job to have sex with him so he's satisfied, u make u intentions clear from the beginning. Don't let him or anyone else pressure u into something u don't want. If he love u and respects u then he'll want u to be sure about having sex with him and he'll want u to do it when ur ready if he can't wait he's not worth it.
2006-07-12 02:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pumkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you're a very smart girl to wait. Good for you!
His erection is totally natural and completely out of his control. If I were you, I would have a talk with him and tell him you're not ready to go all the way. Just tell him that you want there to be no misunderstandings about it. I would NOT mention his erection because it could be embarassing to him (because he can't control it).
Best of luck to you, honey! You're making the right decision to wait.
Mandy
2006-07-12 00:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a moment before the kiss,Just keep your arm crossed and catch on the other hands elbow, looks to cover your chest.or just push him softly away when your lips are just get in touch with his. Be practical, than passionate.Make him to love you than obsession.Spend more time for talks, will less the time to touch.
2006-07-12 00:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nachikethas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am 14 years old and that has happened to me too. I have to say if you don't want him to touch you then your going to have to tell him so he does not do something that you don't want to do you know. So all your going to have to do is tell him what your ready for and what your not ready for and hopfuly he understands.
~railman9000
2006-07-12 01:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we are in similar positions i tried but no use. when your alone with you b/f and your kissing and touching sex is going to kick in. heres's what you do try not to be behind closed doord with him go somewhere public if u don't want to have sex with him. If it happens again just promise me plz that you will use a CONDOM!!!!!!
2006-07-12 01:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't want what you think. It is a physical reaction on boys when they come a little closer with girls. You had better talk with him rather than avoiding it . GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-12 00:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by DeAtHxs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend did not try to go for sex you are not ready for than stay with him and ignore his natural body tendencies [by that i mean erections].if your boyfriend tries to push you into having sex you are not ready for than know that is a strong issue that can lead to you'll breaking up.
2006-07-12 00:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by elibralover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look its all natural maybe if you feel ready you should give him a hand job but dont feel pressured 2 have sex
2006-07-12 02:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right on being too young. Tell him you don't want to do it. if he can't respect your privacy, he's not the one for you.
2006-07-12 01:18:58 · answer #11 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋