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2006-07-11 23:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by on the way 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They aren't made in "heaven", They are made by people who are in too much of a hurry to pair off. Scared to death of being by themselves...Which usually means choosing the wrong partner.
2006-07-12 00:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what it means is that all marriages are usually created with the best intentions and during a time where love kind of outweighs the reality and responsibilities that a marriage brings. People look at marriage and most don't really think about the obligations and the work that goes into it...They see it as the American dream, fairy tale, happily ever after ending but after the vows are exchanged for the most part things change. Not to say that things are bad for all or that it is even bad at all but they kind of get a crashcourse back to reality (or back to earth) and the love takes on a different meaning and once again the realization of and actual effort towards responsibility and working to keep the marriage good and alive is something that is dominant. So I guess in some circumstances it could be interpreted that it fails on earth because the reality of everything becomes present, there are the problems that are lurking their ugly faces all of the time whether its money issues, temptation, or whatever. So love is made in heaven with pure intentions and a heart full of love and they fail on earth bc sometimes peoples circumstances and choices in their everyday life either kill or signficantly damage what they wanted in the first place...Sorry Im having a hard time articulating myself as to what Id like to say...
2006-07-12 09:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, is is said that marriages are made in heaven, but the why of this, is this:
We are human, not perfect. We are full of ourselves and wants perfections from others. Over here in this context if only the 2 person that come together was founded in love not lust, the marriages have a strong foundation. You have caught some religious terms can you allow me to quote some phrase too. The problem with those who got married and finds out that the marriage had gone dry is that they will stop doing the thins they have done during courtship. The man will blame his wife, the wife resented her husband. but if the marriage develop that friendship and respect then it would strong to go through hard times. It is said, A cord of three strands is hard to be broken.
When you both concentrate to each other what she or he can give, then you are in trouble. The usual saying was... I am a half looking for another half. If a person said that He or she is dangerous. Both man and woman should be whole before they will go to that holy matrimony.
2006-07-12 07:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by edith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it means is that people don't care about the work it takes to make a marriage work, and they don't marry the person that they should. There are people who get married 2, 3, even 4 times.. and you should only be married once. Also, marriage is work. It's not all fairytales and bubblegum. You will have differences, and you will have fights and you will have hard times. No one wants to compromise.. and no one wants to change to make a marriage work. Marriage was made in heaven. It's the most sacred thing for a couple, and should last forever, but bring it into practice on earth... and it rarely makes the distance.
2006-07-12 06:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are just not ment to be. In courtship (or going out to the young people.) everything is fine and rose colored and everything smells like icecream and flowers. It's not the same once you get married. trust me. It was the case for me. I was so in love, didn't think anything could go wrong. Until I got married. Everything went downhill from there. I still love my wife, but it a different way now. I'm cautious of how and what I say. Intimacy isn't as alive as before. I think life issues are a major factor. Children, stress of work, bills overdue, not making enough $, not existing sex life anymore. Everything comes into consideration when married. May be made in heaven, but living in the marriage could be hell.
2006-07-12 07:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by PR_DR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all marriages are made in heaven and fall on the earth some marriages fall from heaven status to HELL and become the fire that burns the couple into oblivion.
Check the courts for divorce out. If the true marriage were made in heaven it failed on earth because the married couple did not communicate and only think of the ME factor in their relationships. This ME factor is the break down of 99% of all broken marriages that should be and remain heaven made!
2006-07-12 07:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is no longer a bond or union. Marriage is a joke. I have NEVER been married nor do I think I ever will. I have slept with so many married women and seen many men cheat on their wives. The sanctity of marriage is a joke today. People get married today because they are pressured or their friends are doing it, or because they want that "status symbol". The divorce rate is astronomical and it will only get higher and higher.
2006-07-12 07:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is something sacred, attached to this holy bond is things like love and happiness, it is the ultimate bond. It's easy to see that these are things we relate to to heaven...being closer to God, to the ones you love, eternal bliss and all of that. So thats where the relationship with heaven comes from. Everyone who gets married would hope for a marraige made in heaven, i.e. lasting forever, total happiness, tranquility...love! But its not so easy because we have to make our lives on earth which we have tainted with things like greed, power, money...lust inside wedlock, where the sacred bond of marriage are just words! Its not that earth is bad place, but we have made it bad... its in society, people have to work even harder to make the marriage work... It involves the stresses of life and work, avoiding conflict, choosing between right and wrong...so people are more than likely to give up than honour the marriage, like the divorce stats indicate....
So you see all marriages are made in heaven, but the test is to honour it by surviving on earth! Its when you have live all your life wedded to the one person you love, thats when heaven is earth and your marriage is where it was made!
Thats just my weird view....
2006-07-12 06:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,marriages are made in heaven.they dont fail on the earth if u
have mutual understanding between eachother.u must comprimise in some aspects.u must also respect likes and dislikes.
love the other person . be friendly with them .
2006-07-12 06:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by swetha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a bond between two people who have free will. marriage...a perfect union that is supposed to be supported by humans who arent perfect by defintion. God gave us free will to grow and evolve but marriage puts restraints on us. the way life is today..society's attitudes and its hard enough its no wonder the rate is up to 60%
2006-07-12 07:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by bill6866 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋