Yes you can have sex. You might get some wild answers here so it's better to ask the Dr. when you should stop.
2006-07-11 23:26:46
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answer #1
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answered by # one 6
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im not a dr but i have been pregnant twice and we had sex all the way up till 9 months.But everyone is different.If she sick or cramping or whatever dont do it.With my last child when i went to the dr i was 9 months and i thought i was only a few weeks off from delivering i was already 2 cm dialated and that lasted a while the dr told me i could still have sex if it wasnt uncomfortable in fact she incouraged it.While im sitting there thinking yea thats what i really want my hubbys doing an irish jig lol the doc told me there is a chemical in semen that stimulates labor when you are that far along. But your wife is only 4 months so its safe unless there is a problem shes high risk or the dr says no.But if i was you guys i would really talk to ur dr because they would know best Congratulations
2006-07-12 01:42:50
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Please understand that its easy for you to say ... good, another baby.. when you don't have to go through the hormonal changes and still babysit the rest of the clan. You don't have to endure the body changes or the weight of a child in the summer and all the headaches and nausea and the tired feeling that accompanies being pregnant. Its HARD to be pregnant but guys don't understand that. Its not a piece of cake like you make it sound. Its hard, back breaking, tedious work to carry a load in the front of you while you carry one on your hip and drag another around by its arm and still carry a 10 lb bag of groceries from the car to the house. Do you ever stop and think of that? If you are so happy about this baby then GENUINELY SHOW your wife how happy you are by getting her a maid for the next 9 months or a nanny to assist in the care of the rest of the kids or become both for her while she is pregnant. IF you have a neice or younger sister that isn't married then hire them to come over several days and nights a week and assist your wife. Be sure you do all YOU can do for the next 9 plus months too. Its not easy even with the first one but this makes 5 with the laundry of 4 kids plus a husband and yourself to do and the house to clean and the homework to help with, etc. etc. etc. and so on. Men can get us pregnant and then complain that we can't take it but if they really love us they will come up along side of us when we are carrying that child and also for a good year afterwards and give us all the assistance and love we can get and need. Then they are truly glad that they are going to be a father again. SO... FOR THE NEXT YEAR.... show your wife in everyway you can JUST HOW MUCH you are happy about her being pregnant by LOVING HER through this time. Congratulations.
2016-03-27 02:15:25
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answered by Anonymous
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You can have sex from start till end although some doctors will advise against sex in the first trimester if you have previously miscarried.
I got mega horny when I was preggers and loved sex even more than usual! Make the most of it - you miss out once the baby is here!
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I was having sex right till the end - had sex at 11pm, was in labour at 6am. Apparantly it helps but I was 10 days late and even sex didn't get him movin!
ALSO baby's enjoy the feelin of an orgasm in the womb - it sends happy vibes to them. I think that might be why I have such a happy and content little boy!
2006-07-11 23:28:28
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answered by Anonymous
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As long as the doctor says its fine, there should be no reason why you can't have sex. That second trimester can be the horniest time for a woman, too! That old wives tale that says no sex during pregnancy is totally wrong. You can have sex as much as she wants to. She's probably really tired now, but the tiredness will hopefully pass as the pregnancy progresses.
2006-07-11 23:29:33
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answered by drewsilla01 4
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Yes, you can but you can count on the fact that there will be changes in your sex life. Open communication will be the key to a satisfying and safe sexual relationship during pregnancy.
Is It Safe to Have Sex During Pregnancy?
If you're having a normal pregnancy, sex is considered safe during all stages of the pregnancy. So what's a "normal pregnancy"? It's one that's considered low-risk for complications such as miscarriage or pre-term labor.
Of course, just because sex is safe during pregnancy doesn't mean you'll necessarily want to have it! Many expectant mothers find that their desire for sex fluctuates during certain stages in the pregnancy. Also, many women find that sex becomes uncomfortable as their bodies get larger. You and your partner need to keep the lines of communication open regarding your sexual relationship. Talk about other ways to satisfy your need for intimacy, such as kissing, caressing, and holding each other. You also may need to experiment with other positions for sex to find those that are the most comfortable. Many women find that they lose their desire and motivation for sex late in the pregnancy - not only because of their size but also because they're preoccupied with the impending delivery and the excitement of becoming a new parent.
There are two types of sexual behavior that aren't safe for any pregnant woman:
If you engage in oral sex, your partner should not blow air into your vagina. Blowing air can cause an air embolism (a blockage of a blood vessel by an air bubble), which can be potentially fatal for mother and child.
You should not have sex with a partner whose sexual history is unknown to you or who may have a sexually transmitted disease, such as herpes, genital warts, chlamydia, or HIV. If you become infected, the disease may be transmitted to your baby, with potentially dangerous consequences.
P.S. I AM NOT A DOCTOR - but I can answer your question!
2006-07-11 23:30:08
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answered by Anonymous
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If she is feeling up to it and the doctor says it is okay then it would be fine but if the doctor said no don't have sex (for whatever reason) or if the mother dosen't feel like having sex don't make her feel bad cause some women when they are pregnant lose interest in sex.
2006-07-11 23:29:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I am not a doctor but I am a father. You should engage in sex only if your partner is comfortable. You will not harm the child that she is carrying. Be aware that if you are on top you can not press into her stomach. You may also want to avoid extremely deep penetrations as this may cause her discomfort. Enjoy.
2006-07-11 23:24:15
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answered by thomastl614 2
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The doctor says you can have sex until the 5th or 6th month, when you find out the sex of the baby.
2006-07-12 00:43:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Of course you can. Providing your wife wants to and she is comfortable there is no problem having sex right into the 9th month. Of course if there is a medical problem then you better be thinking about your wifes' needs and not yours.
2006-07-11 23:26:15
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answered by SUzyQ 4
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