Do you belive that they are hypocritic, !!! have the affairs and sex secretly and cheat their future life partner??? , or sexually frustated but afraid of HIV afraid of their parents and society!!!, How much willing are the Indian women to have premarital sex???, How many among you want to be chaste and virgin and want to loose your virginity only to your life partner!!!!???
2006-07-11 23:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
From what I understand,the KAMA SUTRA IS for married couples,a kind of guide for married couples,which means it endorses sex AFTER marriage.
As to cheating on people while having sex before marriage,think abt it. When you meet that one person you marry,you did cheat on them by sleeping with so many people.YOU ARE USED GOOD. It's akin to the person having an affair while married to you;you won't like that,would you? You'd be cheating yourself too since for some women who overanalyze relationships,you'd spend nights wondering how many women he slept with before you. WHO NEEDS THAT? There is also the risk of getting and infecting each other with STDs which you didn't know you had and that'll open up a can of worms you want keep closed.
The indians I know DON'T date,maybe because they have been engaged since they turned 18.I don't know abt the women,just the men who I hang out with. Most of them don't have the time anyway,not when there's school and twice the courseload because they have double majors and minors.
I promised myself when I was 13 that I would stay faithful to my husband,whoever he is and wherever he is AND I have kept that promise for 9 yrs and still keeping it. I think in my case,it's more out of fear of getting diseases,getting pregnant and having to choose between killing the baby or being a burden to welfare and taxpayers. Plus your first time should be with someone you absolutely love and will stick with for the rest of your life. In the avg of one minute it takes to copulate,how can you really tell someone loves you or not? Premarital sex is like prostitution:sleeping with different men except pros get paid and promiscous people get nothing in return for giving up a part of them they'll never get back and part of their dignity too.
2006-07-19 19:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I am not Indian, though I've been living in India, I am married to an Indian and have dozens of Indian friends.
My opinion is that Indian society in this sense is very hypocritic. Young people r highly interested in sex, I'd even say, kinda obsessed with it, but officially there is still that myth that sex exists only after marriage. And people r so quick to judge others... a girl is holding hands with a guy - means she is a loose character... With this mentality everything gets carefully hidden, even normal human relationships. I hate it. At the same time, I understand why it is the way it is. And they will not change so soon. Unfortunately.
2006-07-11 23:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is having any sort of romantic/sexual relationship with someone when you are already involved with someone else who has the understanding the two of you have an agreement to be committed/monogamous with each other,exclusivelyy. How is having premarital sex cheating? How can you cheat on someone you're not currently with or haven't even met yet (i.e. your "future wife") I don't have a problem with premarital sex. If you are committed to/sleeping with just that one person that's not cheating. I am not okay with cheating. Waiting until you're married to have sex is fine, if that's what you want. Just because someone else chooses a different lifestyle than you does not mean they don't have principles.
2016-03-27 02:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wish to waste my time with someone that I am not going to spend the rest of my life with. It's more of a culture than fear. I mean, you don't have to have sex to know if that's the person you want to be with. And you're just going to waste your time and your partner's time if you have a relationship that's not going to work. And it's a very intimate thing, it's gonna hurt both parties when the relationship doesn't work.
And how would one feel if she met the person she had slept with before while she is on holiday with her family?
It's okay if some bad like rape happened, they should be protected against stereotype thinking. But flirting around and doing xxx is not very decent. Flirting as in not respecting themselves type of flirting.
And if the guys want virgin wives, they should be virgins too. You don't have the extra hand just because your reproduction organ is on the outside.
Well, sex is more beautiful when it's with this one person you love and you're going to spend the rest of your lives with.
2006-07-11 23:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by longtailedmonkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remaining a virgin till marriage is a legitimate option even though I fail to see the point. As for premarital sex being equal to chaeting that confuses me even further: cheating on whom?
2006-07-11 23:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because of cultural reasons. from the ancient days Indians uphold high moral values and its impacts still persists. we are proud to be the ancestors of the ancient Hindu saints who prayed for the peace of the whole world and spent their life for this. we are the only population in this earth who never attacked another population.
2006-07-11 23:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by erangath b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said Indians don't have pre-marital sex. They do, but they don't reveal to anyone (even to close pals)!! You know girls more smart than boys in this country and they enjoy a position in the society for their sex too! Believe! They act smart in all things like studies, sports, conduct, in sex & its preventive measures too. These indian girls showcase themselves like they are chaste beings!!
Men?? Obviously has to fall into......
2006-07-11 23:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Artin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So many questions,,each one might give me 2 pnts,BUT...
why we think that others must do as we do?
why is that?
do we think that -really- we are the superman in this world?
is it compulsive to obey us because we are the conqueror ?
doe's any cnqr -with force-have the right to yield others toughts?
what will happen after he-cnqr- became weak?
is it right to do what we do in love affairs?
is it right to mix(LOVE) and (SEX) together in saying(make love) 4xmp?
or ( i love anyone moving on the road ) instead of saying (wanna to f**k) her or him?
oh so many questions ,again
2006-07-11 23:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt marry a virgin, even if she was the foxiest women in the whole wide world!
2006-07-11 23:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i know i am gonna be a virgin til i am married just to be safe
2006-07-11 23:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by 30seconds to mars is awesome.... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋