When I was kissing my boyfriend, we got a little closer. And his **** got harder. I just acted like it didn't happen, because i knew what it ment. But what should i do if it happens again because i dont want to do it with him. We have been together for years, but i still think im too young. I don't really want to talk to him about it because he might not want to kiss like that anymore. I don't want to stop in the middle of us kissing and point it out either. What should i do?
2006-07-11 22:54:05 · 4 answers · asked by Angel$For$Ya 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just ignore it, it is a natural reaction. If you don't want to do it yet then don't. Don't touch it, don't make any reference to it being hard. If you do he will think that you want to take advantage of it. Only talk about it when you want to do something with it.
2006-07-11 23:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mention it to him unless he tells you that he wants sex. An erection is normal in that situation. I'm really proud of you for wanting to abstain for now. You are a very intelligent young lady.
2006-07-12 01:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is natural. It only means he likes you a lot. As long as he doesn't say he wants to do it, just ignore the phenomenon.
2006-07-11 23:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
way to go for wanting to abstain... leave it alone unless it comes up again. in that case, just tell him you dont want to have sex and you arent ready. let him know that just making out is enough for you.
2006-07-11 23:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋