Marriage is big responsibility -how to face it?

Question

am 27 singal mail from medal esat arab country
thinking alot of geting marriage at the same time i am afraid of it "no freedom" after that.

Answer 1

don't get married

Answer 2

I live in the USA and expect that our social and marriage customs are quite different than yours.so I can't speak about anything in that area. What do you mean when you say "NO
freedom" after the marriage. Do you mean that you are only allowed to have sex with your wife and no one else? That is really gaining freedom. you no longer have to go to the hassle of
looking for new women to date..Do you mean you will lose freedom because you will be financially responsible to support
your family? What you gain from having your own family will more than make up for any freedom you have to give up.

But you have to have all this clear in your mind before you can actually make a commitment of marriage. Of course, who the woman is and whether you can find out every thing about her before the marriage is important. How can anyone make a real commitment to stay with a woman forever if he doesn't know if
they are compatible or not.

Answer 3

Marriage is slavery ? But you can enjoy this way :

a) Have more than one wife. If one is not working properly you can use other one.

b) Have no children ? Your brothers children are more than enough to take care of you when u get old.

c) Make sure all your wives work and earn fat salaries so that you never die of hunger.

d) Never divorce them so that they can not enjoy freedom and you rule the world.

e) Make sure that you do not work anything else than flirting with them or having you know what.

f) Be most lazy man on earth.

g) Die at the age of 55 so that you dont need to suffer all the abuses after that. Let them suffer not u.

Answer 4

marriage is a beautiful thing and nothing to be scarred of. But before you get married, you have to be sure that you want to get married and are not doing it because of parental pressure, peer pressure or just because everyone around thinks that its time for u to get married. If you have decided to get married, the dont think about the negatives of married life. Think only about the positives, a soul mate to share everthing you have to a cup of coffee when you get back home tired after working for 10 hours.

Another issue is choose the right match. If you have a girlfriend and you have decided to get married, then things should be fine. If you dont have a girlfriend and are looking for a girl to get married (as in the arranged marriage sorts) then list down the attributes you want to have in your wife. No attribute is bad. If you want your wife to be a house wife all her life, the choose one who doesnt harness desires of being a successfull carrer lady.

onemore thing, look at the girls mother, she is the reflection of what the girl will be in few years.

enjoy and have a blast
PS: dont think about kids for a couple of years

Answer 5

Don't get married. Life will be hell for those who are not ready for it. The wife and kids wants 24 hr attention and you have to be a good family man.

Answer 6

well depends on to whom you are getting married! if both of you have understading and trust for each other, then you will get a good dimension in life. every body needs a sweet, cordial company and needs to be free as well as on some-other time. after marraige if both of you understands that and respect each other then marriage will be really great thing in your life.

Answer 7

Why should u be afraid, can woman eat u up? If ur daddy didn't marry, will u be?

Answer 8

if theres no freedom after that then dont marry. Youre bringing yourself to your own prison if you go ahead...... Live alone unmarried rather than die a slave.... cheers!!!!