VIRGIN. There is too much depending on it.Both families are involved and I don't want to decline this girl as is the only decent young girl who is suitable and we seem to get on well and want similiar things. We both do not know know each other well but she and I are committed to working through the differences. I believe Marriage is for life. She has accepted that my mother will live with me and her U.K and that my career is important as well as regular sex.
2006-07-11 22:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
All the best mate. I hope you didn't take offence. The is the wrong place for your question.
2006-07-11 22:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ganges
You have posed several questions today that people will not understand because of the cutural difference - people in Western society by and large don't understand arranged marriage.
Also you obviously have very high expectations of your future wife but unfortunately the cultural difference between Muslims in the East are far far different to those in the West.
I hope that you are marrying for love and not for a Visa - In my experience visa's to the UK are not that easy to obtain and will certainly be harder for your mother to obtain because you have to prove that you will not need any state/government handouts to support your wife and your mother.
Good luck to you Ganges - I hope all goes well but please be aware that you are the person who will be changing their culture and not your wife and those aroud her so try not to be too judgemental.
2006-07-12 06:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by esl_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish you well, i did not answer your previous question but have since seen the answers i hope you dont think that all british are idiots you did have some sensible answers,GOOD LUCK
2006-07-12 06:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best wishes to you and your future bride!!
2006-07-12 13:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋