I posted a question about how I have slept with 24 guys plus my husband and plus a woman in a 3 way with my husband and I was called a skank, does this qualify as a skank?
2006-07-11 21:02:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
absolutely positively 110% skank
2006-07-12 19:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like a skank? Do you believe that what a stranger on a website tells you to be expert advice? The fact that you told what you told about yourself has me mystified. Some things are better kept private, so engage some boundaries about what you share with strangers, let alone people you know. No, I don't think there's any given information to qualify you for a "skank." I looked up the definition for skank, and here it is:
Disgusting or vulgar matter; filth.
One who is digustingly foul or filthy and often considered sexually promiscuous. Used especially of a woman or girl.
Then I looked up "promiscuous," and here's what I found:
Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners; indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.
Lacking standards of selection; indiscriminate.
Casual; random.
Do you consider 24 partners in 24 years as qualifying for skank? That's one a year and I know a lot of people have 24 in a few weeks. That would qualify for the skank definition. Promiscuous is also elusive as it doesn't give a number to qualify one. So if I were you, I wouldn't think about what the girl called me. She has no clue if what you said is even the truth, so don't let what a stranger says about you affect your self-esteeem. And besides, you are free to change your behavior any time you choose. Don't be too hard on yourself; others will do that for you, I promise. But love yourself and change if you don't like what you see. Who among us hasn't done things that if we could change it, we would? Nobody on Earth is perfect!
2006-07-11 21:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God no!. In this day and age everyone is encouraged in one form or another to explore ones sexual interests and desires by having many partners. This applies to both men and women. So everyone will take advantage of this golden opportunity at some point in their life -hopefully.
The problem you're running to is that more often than not there's a double standard for men that doesn't apply to women -which as a man I think is total B.S. If women are considered to be skanky for sleeping with 24 people then so should man. Don’t you think? That would be fair. Don't worry about that fool. No matter how many people you have slept with or will sleep in your life time you have my respect. Don't be shamed by some close-minded man.
Be good to yourself.
Houston, TX
2006-07-11 21:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sheik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 24, then that is a bit different than being sexually active for 24 years. what is your current situation? ie..i have had several partners, but i aquired them in a short time, i WAS easy or permiscuis, but have been married 7 years. i can admit that, but i was not a skank...that is implying dirtyness, you are of course at a higher risk of having an std of some kind, and some people consider that dirty, but that of course is a matter of someones oppinion, (which everyone has a few)
2006-07-11 22:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.....It just means you've been having you some fun! Guys do the same thing and we get called "Studs"! Hell, I slept with probably 100 or more in 6 months when I was in the Navy and overseas!
Fact of the matter is, if the same women who refer to you as a skank had all of them sticking out of them that they have had stuck in them, they would look like porcupines!
2006-07-11 21:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by old dude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a lot. I believe it's not the amount of partners you've had but how you carry yourself. A woman can be with 5 guys and tell her business to everyone...in my opinion that's a skank. A real woman will keep her business to herself and do what she wants as long as she takes care of herself doing it.
2006-07-11 21:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well one partner a year is not a skank but i do not believe in 3 ways so that 3 way was a pretty skanky thing to do.
2006-07-11 21:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello dear!
It all depends on the definition of Ethics for each individual! Some centuries ago, there was a Pope of Rome that got a son with his daughter!
Exaggeration is fine, only if the person is doing it willingly, really willingly not influenced by standards, society others!
So, who is me, or anyone who will judge the acts of others, especially if they act on free will?
Thus, I say to you dear: Quit smoking! You do not smoke because YOU decided and like it, but because the company, society friends have put to to this direction!
2006-07-12 20:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. I do not think you are a skank. I think more women should venture out like that, just as long as your partner is alright with it. I wish I had your life. It must have been fun.
2006-07-11 21:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Farfignuegen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're only a skank once you can't count how many you have done. Although 24 is probably getting borderline.
2006-07-11 21:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by LilMikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋