It depends on the people. Some people make poor choices and things just go downhill. Others have wonderful marriages and love each other more and more. I know people who have been married 25 years and love each other more and more. I think that is what we all want is love and happiness, otherwise people would stop getting married. There are always hopes and dreams.
2006-07-11 21:08:04
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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There is nothing easier in this life, everything has to come through sweat and hard work and marriage is the same.
The only problem is that nowadays people don't want to put much effort on marriages and the divorce stats show the outcome.
What I thought before is that prostitution was an easy job but I found out it is a really hard, professional job with demanding target to fulfill.
2006-07-11 21:07:45
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answered by Tuxi X 3
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This is like one of the hardest shi*tholes you can dig yourself back out of. It's not easy. I've been through similar hard times--one was when my best friend was hit by a drunk driver, my at the time girlfriends death a year ago and more recently when my other good friend committed suicide in her bathroom about a week and a half ago. Dude the thing you have to realize is that there are people who care about you and wanna help you get through the sh*t you're dealing with, whether its your band mates, your girlfriend, someone at work or any other friend you are close with. My friends have helped me through so much and without them I think I'd be lost. What also helped me was seeing my psychiatrist whom I've known since I was four. That may or may not be the thing for you, but its always something to consider. Just know that you don't need to keep your friends at bay. Shutting down and locking yourself up is probably the worst thing you can possibly do at times like this. And it doesn't seem like your doing any of that so thats good. Talk to someone, it doesn't matter who just as long as there is someone who is willing to listen. You should not have to be alone at times like this. Personally I've never gone to drugs but I'd really hate to hear that your hurting yourself in any way. Your a cool guy and it doesn't even matter whether we're friends outside of yahoo or not, I would be upset if you hurt yourself. Your friends are the most important people right now. Just go to them. Peace man, feel better.
2016-03-27 02:08:30
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answered by Mary 4
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Harder
2006-07-11 21:13:40
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answered by ABBYsMom 7
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In our life we have to face daily new problems about our living styles, and after marriages your life is not only your life it will get combined with your life partner and definetly it will go harder day by day (after children also).
But if we take it as tension definetly it will be bad for our life.
So, always be happy and face your probelm having smile not on your face but in your heart.
And it will be easier.
2006-07-12 00:25:34
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answered by gajendra k 2
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Easier and joy full, coz you have someone who loved you dearly and accept you for who you are, no matter what. I always think that problems are like an essay, there must be some explanation and answer for it. So as long as you don't give up and bless it every single day, your marriage will taste so sweet and full of flower.
2006-07-11 22:37:44
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answered by nike 2
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Put God in your lives and it will certainly become easier--he carries part of the load for you and helps you to know what your responsibilities are toward eachother. Leave God out and you are in for one very difficult time that probably will end in divorce.
2006-07-11 21:10:04
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answered by Sparkle1 6
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marriage becomes harder but somehow if u work hard enuf it becomes quite beautiful.... of course marriage has its ups and downs ... everything has its ups and downs.. everything in life is hard.... its how u live to it...
2006-07-11 21:42:13
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answered by sexy 1
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Harder. YOu get disenchanted with your partner. You get to know all their faults. Either you accept them or you will get so fed up you want to leave.
2006-07-11 22:37:52
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answered by Anonymous
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easier
2006-07-11 23:25:37
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answered by soum 1
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