though he appears to be a normal considerably perfect person
2006-07-11 20:55:48 · 20 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I suppose I said I am trying to convince and not pushing, and late in the sense, that everyone plans for their marriage, to have kids and plan their future, if one gets too old to get married, how would he/she enjoy the benefits of marriage life?
2006-07-11 21:12:35 · update #1
maybe he's just not ready to take the plunge. no one can make him 'ready' other than himself. better marry late than than get into it unprepared. that'll save him from a lot of trouble and heartache. don't hurry him just because you think its getting late for him to get married. let him be. he;s probably happy and content the way he is. if he feels it's time for change, he will look for that change. it may be marriage or something else. it's all up to him.
2006-07-11 21:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe he just doesn't want to get married.. or maybe he didn't find the right person yet..If he is not against marriage then he will probably do it when he feels ready..If still not then there is not a problem..marriage is just something typical for some people so if he doesn't want to marry it doesn't mean that he is not normal..
2006-07-12 04:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that its not your place to convince him - only you are the one who wants to marry him. What motivates you to want something for your friend he does not want for himself (if that is the case) is the real question. Maybe he just likes being single better than being married. It's his life - let him live it as he wants. Just remember that there are two things everyone has - and opinino and a butt hole - and sometime they can both sound and smell the same.
2006-07-12 04:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Late for him as in he is getting older? Time is very important but takes second place to Happiness. If your friend is happier in his current state, his age does not matter. Why rush into something that does not result in greater happiness for him.... remember he is getting older..he should enjoy his life to HIS maximum.
2006-07-12 04:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by redtaillights 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal about marraige? Let the poor guy alone! He's probably fine as he is and you should not push him into something he may regret later. If and when he decides to marry it has to be his decision and his choice not yours.
2006-07-12 04:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by franti91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Afraid to lose his freedom as a bachelor
2) Afraid of commitment
3) Dont like kids
4) Not a family person
5) Too in love with himself
6) Just GAY.
2006-07-12 03:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by satire76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"late for him" is really a relative assessment. Why is it "late"? Late for whom? Obviously it's not late for him if he still prefers to be single.
Why are you getting in his business? I'd say keep your judgments about him to yourself. You are really not in a position to know what's "best" for him or what's "late" for him. What you have is an opinion. He has a different opinion. Respect his opinion.
2006-07-12 03:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Late by who's standards? everyone wasn't intended to be married. Be a friend and let your friend be. He will appreciate you more.
2006-07-12 04:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she isn't the right person or has been hurt by love before and doesn't want to try again.{who knows?there alot of possible answers.)
2006-07-12 04:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Book an earlier appointment.
2006-07-12 04:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋