Wedding Night.
2006-07-11 20:50:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
A doctor can examine her vaginally and see if her hymen is intact. But if she uses tampons, it may not be even if she never had intercourse.
So, just ask her and take her answer as the truth.
2006-07-11 20:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've anwered you're outher question as well, but decided to psot the same answer here:
Firts of all, don't listen to those rude people, a question is never stupid and deserves a decent asnwer.
And don't pay to muchattantion to narow minded people, since they can't imagine how you feel about it and why, they forget that other cultures have other habbits...I also believe in no sex before the wedding (unless you know the one you're with will always stay with you and you know you'll get married once)
But to answer your question:
I can understand why it's important for you to know if she is a virgin, but you should to ask her yourself. She is the only one that knows. I don't she would like it if you would take here to a docter to see if she is a virgin, she'd probably prefer that you asked her.
Who knows, she might tell you herself on the day you'll be engaged, or after the engagement if she's stilla vrigin or not.
You can always ask if she ever had a date before and how long she has been seeing that guy, thats not the same as asking 'are you still a virgin' but can give an indication.
f she sais she has been dating someone for a few weeks (or months), you might want to inform about her virginity, since the chances she isn't a virgin anymore are higher.
Sex can be imporant in relations, but is not the most important thing. The most important thing is love between 2 people, or at least friendship.
If she's still a vrigin, be gentle with here, sex is not always as easy for woman as it is for man, always make sure that she likes what you do.
If she's not a virgin anymore, at least the first time you have sex won't give any problems, that is if you chose to continiou with the marriage if it turns out she isn't a virgin anymore
I hope you'll have a happy engagement and marriage and a happy live with you're future wife
2006-07-12 04:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by WiseDragonGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she (and you) really want a forced marriage, she's probably westernised more than your families care to admit.
I was disturbed the other day on yahoo answers about a girl that is being bullied and beaten by her brother, which is stirred up by her mother, she is being forced into an arranged marriage she doesn't want. It broke my heart that I cannot help her.
PLEASE THINK THIS THROUGH.
I know I'm a Christian, but being from East London I have a Lot of Muslim friends & neighbours, I may not fully understand the Koran and the way of life that goes with it, But I am HUMAN as are you.
2006-07-12 04:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Melc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy... you cant tell. there's an old wives tale that if a girl is still a virgin a thin layer of skin called the hymen will break upon intercourse and will bleed slightly. this is total myth as the hymen can be broken before sex through general excercising. therefore there is no way of telling if she's a virgin except to ask her face to face & study her eyes as she answers. if she fiddles with her fingers/hair/item in hands or avoiding eye contact she's probably lying.hope that helps.
2006-07-12 04:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any fool-proof method to tell for sure.
Do you really want to know? How will that make a difference? It's not like you're going to be living in with her, you're getting married. What if she is not a virgin?
Suggest you answer these questions yourself before thinking about asking her. And don't go by stereotypes - all girls in UK are not promiscuous, just as all girls in India are not nuns.
Enjoy!
2006-07-12 04:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by curious_charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With such suspicion you should not marry any girl. There is no way of making out whether a girl is a virgin or not. You do not have such guarantee even if you marry an Indian illiterate village girl.What about you and how should the girl know?
2006-07-12 03:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking you are an idiot to think she is virgin.
Even if she isn't you won't really know because you are so thick you need to have to ask on this website.
Just make sure you save yourself for the wedding night and at least one of you will be a virgin that night.!!!
BTW I shagged her also!
2006-07-12 04:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Baggs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot.
Why do you care? If you loved her it would not affect the relationship.
At the end of the day it is just sex.
Its over and she obviously loves you. If she tells you she is a virgin you should believe her seeing as you are marrying her!
If you do not believe her you should not marry her. A relationship cannot work without trust!
2006-07-12 03:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by becky_ms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact you care about that shows you dont deserve to be married...
You should only be with someone as you like them, you both fancy the pants off each other, and have lots of fun...
Virginity aint part of that equasion... so should be irrelavant...
What about you? you one?
2006-07-12 08:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she say she is , just believe her, it will make your life AND HERS easier.
What difference does it make anyway? It's how she is as a person that matters. The need to make love is actually VERY NATURAL and if she has already experienced it, then that will be even better for you. She will know already, how to please a man.
That said. JUST DON'T GET MARRIED. IT WILL RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
2006-07-12 04:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by super_star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋