2006-07-11 20:35:30 · 15 answers · asked by hotania27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is arranged marriage.He kept on telling me that He doesn't love his wife. He just married the lady because of his family.
2006-07-11 20:55:14 · update #1
Arrange marriage is different in Love marriage..right? so,...what do you think? Does he really loves me?
2006-07-11 20:56:07 · update #2
If you have a boyfriend that is still married you better leave him because he is using you and telling you lies. He doesn't love you. If he would he would be honest and not cheat on his wife. This so called boyfriend is nothing more than a fraud who plays with people.
He probably knew how to get to your weak spot and believe me we all have that because we all want to be loved and respected for who we are and we want someone who says that we are beautiful and special and when a man comes along who says all those things we want to hear so badly and that makes us feel so good about ourselves there is a possibility for some of us especially when we are longing for some love and affection that we fall for a married man. I don't know if he told you he was married from the start but believe me getting involved with a married man something you should never do. You are living in a lie and you are helping him to cheat on his wife.
How would you feel if you were married and your husband would do this to you? Try to imagine what it would do to you. How does it feel now to be with him knowing that he goes home to his wife after he has been with you and that he is lying to her into her face? What makes you think that if he's lying to his wife and everybody else that he is being truthful to you. He lies to you just as easily. Break up with him out of respect for yourself because you deserve better. He's nothing more that an insult to you and he's taking away your self esteem. You are feeling very uncertain about the whole thing else you wouldn't have asked your question. Just leave him becaue you deserve someone who really loves and respects you for being the wonderful, beautiful person that you are and that doesn't cheat and plays games with others. If he's having problems in his marriage then he has to solve that ones first instead of hurting others by selling cheap lies and empty promises.
It will probarbly hurt a while when you have ended with him but you will soon feel much better about it because believe me you don't need him. You can do better.
Good luck and best wishes
2006-07-11 21:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by aysha 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when your boyfriend chooses to leave his family/divorce his wife, and marry you!
if he is not willing to do all of that, then he do not really loves you. Try asking him to do these, and if he give alibies or said he can't do it, then look for some who is willing to love you so much and give you the wedding that you deserves and the love you long. There are plenty of people willing to love you. And your heart has the ability to love other people, in due time.Try looking up for your future... he can't be with you unless he separate from his family now, unless you want to share with her wife, an until when? God bless! Takecare!
2006-07-11 20:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by demon_hunter_ illidan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is low enough to be with you when he is married, then he is not worth being with.
Do not mess with other peoples' husbands in the first place! How would you like it if you were married and your husband was cheating on you? Put yourself in his wife's shoes. And what if he has kids? Do you want to be the reason that the family falls apart?
2006-07-11 20:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's ridiculous!! how can you said he still loves you when he's married? I believe you're a beatiful girl with a lot of good qualities, so be alive, don't waste your time loving and longing someone who belongs to someone else. If you're not satisfied with my answer, count for yourself, how many sacrifices you have done for him, ask also, how many time does you lie to self by telling your heart that he might still love you. What matters most, be sure you always happy even without his love.
2006-07-11 20:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by manjeff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, if he's unhappy in his marriage, he needs to settle that first simply because he's unhappy. Not because he has you waiting. Tell him there will be no promises. He will have to take the risk of ending his current marriage before he can consider you. Don't leave him believing he can jump from one bed to another. If he's unwilling to take the risk, then he wasn't sincere anyway.
2006-07-11 20:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if he is still married and has you on the side that has. "I don't want to leave my wife" written all over it. He does not love you if he is not willing to wait to get involved with you after his divorce.
Hope this helps~
2006-07-11 20:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're saying that your boyfriend is married, and you want to know if he loves you, I got news for ya, he pretty much only cares about himself. If he's cheatin on his wife with you, he's cheatin on you with his wife, and God only knows who else.
Don't you deserve to be first to "your" man. Get yourself some self esteem and everything else should fall into place.
God Bless.
2006-07-11 20:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a married man every woman/girl is beautiful other than his wife. be careful. married person always say to girl/woman that I love you.
2006-07-11 20:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mastani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be with married people....your a stupid hoe ***** if you continue to date married people. Also you will be cursed with bad luck and will never know true love....
2006-07-11 20:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you..If he is married he loves his wife
2006-07-11 20:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋