2006-07-11 19:59:50 · 32 answers · asked by venkyrocker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Both would be great. But how would you prevent them from finding out about each other?
2006-07-11 20:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by eeyoreshunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a girl but, i think someone would like a good heart, here's why... a good heart can buy happiness, unlike money... money, it will only buy materialistic things... for a woman, dont be lazy, a good heart will love you unconditionally, a good heart will be the one that when there is a problem he will be there to wipe your tears, a good heart will be the one at the end of the day who will hold you in his arms and keep you safe... a man with money will not give those things... he would be working constantly, he would obviously be more interested in the next big meeting than the next big moment with the woman he loves... if a woman was smart, she'd pick a good heart... because a lifetime of happiness will last longer than expensive material things...
2006-07-11 20:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one.
Good heart is needed for all in life. But money is also needed to survive. So if you have met two guys and are deciding on these , make sure you can find out if the ione with money has a heart.
You can love a guy with a good heart but what if he hates to work? and doesnt. Where is he going to take you out ? if you marry him, how is he going to support you ? money is a necessity in today's world. And there are good men with money (somewhere).
Without money you cannot survive, but you are in afree country where you can work also, and be independent to make yr choices. So if you ahve money and met a guy with good heart, what is a good heart anyway? to you? If you can pay him his way through life go for it. If you dnt look for someone who has money but also has rules and is faithful and not a chimp with lots of gold.
2006-07-11 20:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good heart. My sister married for security first and had a breakdown from his abuses and inability to love w/o control. Now she is married to her soulmate. They may struggle for money at times, but she is 1,000,000 times happier!!! She tells me all the time how, after 20 some years, she still feels tingles when he kisses her, that he still turns her on, and how incredibly lucky she is. He is still romantic and told me she has the biggest heart of anyone he knows!!
That kind of love, Honey, is something that cannot be bought or sold. I am 50 and have never married because I could never settle for less than my soulmate... and I've never found him since I've had to care for family members for so many years. In caring for my parents, I gave Dad IVs 4 times a day. Entering my parent's room at midnight, oh what a sight to see these two eighty-year-olds holding hands and talking softly! They were still in love!!
My dad said he knew the moment he saw Mom he would marry her!! They were married 61 years when he passed, and loved Mom more than life! My dad would have given his life for Mom, his kids, or grandkids. Both of my parents would have done this. The greatest thing in life is Love and that comes with a good heart. But my parents didn't have good hearts... their hearts were pure Gold!! God bless them both!
2006-07-11 20:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by EUDORA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good heart because I have seen on this earth theres not that many people with them. A gurl just likes to be noticed and to spend time with the one they care about. Money is just money. It doesn't have the power to make you love someone. Just buy things that won't matter later on in life.
2006-07-11 20:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man with a good heart, but with the potential to be successful in life.
2006-07-11 20:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good heart always comes first to me .
but there are a number of girls out there who would want to lure you into a friendship because you are super rich or very hot. Each girls choice reflects her frame of mind , if she chooses you for your money be sure that one day she is gonna ditch you for sure.
money can run out but a good heart will always be there and let me tell you a good heart is worth a lot more than a good bankbalance.
2006-07-11 20:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by aj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good heart.
2006-07-11 20:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good heart!
2006-07-11 20:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With 40 years on this earth... I can tell you that they will say a good heart,but they will jump on the money train faster than you can say bye.
2006-07-11 20:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good heart, for sure!
Money comes and goes, but the heart will stay.
2006-07-11 20:01:56 · answer #11 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋