we did it three times within two days after she got off her period, and once on the 15th day after she got off her period. i pulled out everytime. should I be a little worried or Really worried?
2006-07-11 19:08:24 · 16 answers · asked by jake 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we are using condoms now. yes i know i should have worn one the first times. and her period is not due until the 23rd.
2006-07-11 19:18:49 · update #1
do I have any choices besides an abortion pill? and does anybody know how much that pill is?
2006-07-11 19:20:17 · update #2
Yes, it's possible.
First time unprotected is "maybe" understandable ... but why didn;t you go out and get condoms after that?
For your own safety, wear the jacket!
2006-07-11 19:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no sure way of telling if she is pregnat until her period is due. anytime you have sex, no matter the time of the month, pull out or stay in, you run a high risk of getting pregnant. as always the best way to prevent getting pregnant is not to have sex, other than that, there is always condoms, the pill, the shots.. and so on. but once the act is already done, the only option if you do not want the child is to use the "morning after pill" which some states do not allow the use of, an abortion, or adoption.
for now, the only thing you can do is wait, worrying will not make it better. be supportive, and responsible for your actions.
2006-07-12 02:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Reena L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The absolutely perfect day to "try" to get pregnant is the 15th day after a woman STARTS her period. Usually she will ovulate on the 14th day. It takes 24-48 hours for the egg to travel to where it can optimally be fertilized. Sperm can last up to about 4-5 days. If you are both young, there are unlikely to be any complications which would make conception difficult. 25% of the time conception would occur if egg and sperm meet during this timeframe. Depending on how long her period was - I think you probably missed the cutoff and she would not be pregnant. However, you might seriously consider a better form of birth control.
2006-07-12 02:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by luxury6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear let me tell u 5 days before n 5 days after the menstural period is safe, rest r the days of unsafe sex i.e. more n more chances of getting her pregnant. right now only u can go for tablets called post sex tablets which r usually taken in the cases of unprotected sex -- rape etc, so go to a doct n get her those tabs, soon within 48 hours. if its already up then also go to a gyneac. n ask for any other med.
she is pregnant or not could be known only after her due date of periods r missed. then only those pregnancy strips available in market r successful in telling positive/ negative report.
all the best
enjoy but take precautions from now
2006-07-12 02:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by saran_kaur2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to hope and pray. I hope you have learned your lesson.
By the way, she will be most fertile 14 days after the FIRST day of her last period.
If she started her period on the 1st July, then she is most fertile on and around the 14th July, but all women are different and some can get pregnant at different times to that.
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you both. Good luck!
2006-07-12 04:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once is ALL IT TAKES! would you like to see proof? i can email you a picture of my 8yr old son...who was conceived after ONE time of unprotected sex with his father, who "pulled out".
WRAP IT UP EVERY TIME!!!!!!!
if i were you id be REALLY worried. if she doesn't start her next period on time, wait 5 days then get a test. if it's negative, but still no period after 10 days...go to free clinic and get a blood test!
BTW...sperm can even be in your "pre-c u m" so yeah...always use a condom.
2006-07-12 02:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be worried ..the 15th day is right around the time that most women ovulate...plus if you don't know whether or not to be worried i'm going to say that you are too young to know your body welll enough to pull out in time every time...i hope she's not and USE CONDOMS
2006-07-12 02:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry. U pulled out everytime.Dont plant a seed Dont grow no weed!
2006-07-12 02:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your first course of action is to ask a statistical question on Yahoo Answers? She should be getting tested right now.
2006-07-12 02:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Psychology 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Chances are she will be conceived on one of those time even if you pull out. Sperms are very active.
2006-07-12 02:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋