I trust my hubby very much, I have always been submissive TO HIM. Is it normal to like it real rough? Sometimes I want it rougher but he says he has his limits..
2006-07-11 18:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by angelsmommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am NOT shy and only submissive TO HIM. He tells me that is one thing that he loves about me, out of the bedroom I am very opinionated...
I don't think sex is something you should be ashamed of when you are in a loving committed relationship.
2006-07-11 18:47:53 · update #1
Ignore the trolls. It seems that you have the seemingly paradoxical but actually common situation where you are wanting to play to go further than the Dominant in the relationship.
Dominants have their limits just as much as submissives do. They are people just like everyone else, vanilla or not. Indeed, it is very healthy that they have such limits, as I hope that you do as well.
The only advice that I can offer on that is to discuss with you husband the nature of his limits. See if they are hard limits, in which case you need to refrain from testing, or soft limits that might evolve over time.
As to whether it is normal that you like it rough, I would have to say not exactly as most people are probably not into that level of roughness (whatever it happens to be). However, the better question would then be is it healthy? It depends on what it entails. If you are asking to be abused, then it is not healthy. However, if all you are asking is to be used, then it's perfectly fine.
I suppose the question of sanity is important, and as long as your desires remain within the realm of sanity, you have nothing to worry about on that mental front. However, given your husband's limits, you will probably need to console yourself to it's non-fulfillment and pursue it only as a mental activity.
2006-07-13 17:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with spicing things up in the bed room.. I dont like it rough or need to role play every time, but every now and then i like to.. we take turns being submissive although im not a very good "dominatrix" i laugh to much when im trying to be serious.. i much rather be the submissive..
2006-07-11 19:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not are conscious of it both. that's not in common words peer stress. i imagine that's the shortcoming of a "moral personality" in modern-day society. They do unlawful stuff because they can get away with it. "Oh, they are purely young ones. They do stuff like that." is what society tells the moms and dads who genuinely care. So, our society does not condemn those movements. i imagine they do it to rebellion adversarial to social norms or some thing. ultimately, it would not quantity to a lot. A life-replacing decision (made trivial with the help of technique of abortion) should be made because they are offended with their moms and dads, or because they prefer to educate some thing. did you know how a lot sympathy I genuinely have for those people? 0. to procure wasted at a social gathering and were given pregnant. "Omg!a million Why ought to I do now?" don't be stupid. era. those are not rash judgements. they are continual. you're invited to a social gathering that you know may have alcohol. You settle for. You visit the social gathering. you do not go away. you come back to a call to have alcohol. Do you spot what number possibilities people genuinely ought to make the right decision? till society starts cracking down on immature habit, that's going to proceed. in the intervening time, i'd be in the nook, observing people screw up their lives and in no way feeling undesirable in any respect. Your boss gained't in case you come back to artwork wasted in the morning. So, awaken people! you're literally not invincible, and also you may be put on your rightful position.
2016-11-01 21:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I like it. The most important is not how you make love with your husband but how deep is your love.
Rought sex only one of the many ways to make a love. So, what ever you want better you discuss it first with your husband and ask him for his oppinion.
2006-07-11 19:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by The Nine'ers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it really rough you could try spending a night at a penitenciary. LOL. You'll be cured the next day. Or, chances are you'll still be asking for rougher play.
2006-07-11 18:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by DragonHeart18 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some of the girls I dated liked the rough stuff.
Go figure.
It's okay the first few times, but after that the novelty wears off.
2006-07-11 18:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look me up when u ready for the rough stuff. just make sure u still love your hubby. U know once u go African u never got back. i just want you to go back for the soft stuff, and not stay attached to me.
lol
2006-07-11 19:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then, your limits might be alittle to much for him respect that, but it is still fun to see how far they will go. But it makes me wonder you must be real out there. Good luck with that one it might be something for your fantasys only dont pressure the poor man
2006-07-11 18:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by jojoB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember to have a safety word. My word was yellow. When it got too rough, all she had to do was say yellow. That was how I knew to lighten up.
2006-07-11 18:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u sound fun and adventurous...its good u wanna mix it up a bit.. but respect his limits...
2006-07-11 18:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋