2006-07-11 18:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by Darica H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You need to be as open and honest as possible. Better to have him hurt with the truth than hurting alot later from the lie you will be perportrating by making him think you want to be with him. hope it all works out.
2006-07-11 18:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be KIND, be DIRECT, be HONEST and BRIEF.
He does not need to know the name of the other gentleman.
He does not need a long drawn out story.
After he knows keep it short and DO NOT ingage in getting in touch with him again.
Its better for him this way so he can move on FASTER!
Good luck!
2006-07-11 18:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, avoid details, better to get the hurting over with straight up and get both of you on the track to being happy.
2006-07-11 20:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuo ought to tell him.. adult males communicate.. believe me adult males BRAG! no longer some thing you do with a guy who doesnt have thoughts for you wont be broadcast to different dudes. believe me-- i understand how adult males are Im "between the adult males"(female who's cool with them) and if he didnt experience for you, he will tell about it. some adult males already understand he did it with you and its ideal you tell your boyfriend before be conscious receives decrease back to him. Then he wont believe you.. or maybe as he locate out he will say "you saved this from me, how am i able to believe that you're not from now on hiding some thing else?".. Thats why when I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time(and likely we were nevertheless together, i cheated to get decrease back at him) I ha sex with yet another guy. i became female adequate to inform him what I did. NO secrets and techniques. when we were on damage, i kissed a guy named miguel and that i informed HIM FIRST. i'm the realist female you may have. You under no circumstances should be stricken about me hiding issues because i'm so person-pleasant that IF I did some thing incorrect, i'd be positive to allow you to understand. He respected me for that. Then even as someone got here to him with some BS about soemthing I did(it wasnt' authentic) he stated "My female did not attempt this because if she messes up, she tells me about it first". I had his comprehend for that and he under no circumstances fearful about me because he knew i became dependable and if I did so ensue to slide, he may study it. tell him. Hurry before he exhibits out on his personal.
2016-12-01 02:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by sargeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes like this....
you: I've been thinking.
him: about?
you: us.
him: oh?
you: yeah
him: and?
you: well.. I like someone else.
him: who?
you: your brother! I'm having his child!
him: WHAAAA?
you: calm down! I cheated on him last week with your uncle!
him: I can't believeeee this!!!
you: can we still be friends?
him: ummm..
you: well? can we??
him: no, you cheated on me with my brother and uncle and God knows who else!
you: true, but I really wanna be friends!
him: well... we will see...
me: after you break up with this jerk can we go to McDonalds and get a burger? I'm hungry! you're paying!
2006-07-11 18:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about hiim and you respect him as a person, be honest and keep it real. Tell him what's up.
2006-07-11 18:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him all the things that he does wrong.
Then when he feels like hes been doing alot wrong, then tell him that .
2006-07-11 18:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by bullockpro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not on the internet, and where everybody else can read it, Darica. :-)
2006-07-11 21:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, just break up with him.
2006-07-11 18:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by gaby1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply tell him.
2006-07-11 18:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋