How do I tell my mom that I had sex in her bed with my aunts boyfriend?

Question

IT WAS MY FIRST TIME HAVEING SEX

Answer 1

It sounds like you are young, and if that was your AUNT'S boyfriend, that would probably mean that he was much older. If you are under 18, and he is older than 18 and more than 2 years older than you, than most likely that is considered statutory rape, and he could be in BIG trouble, including jail time. Statutory rape counts whether you consented or not. If he talked you into it, but you really didn't want to, even if you finally agreed, it is still rape. It is NOT your fault. You need to talk to your mom right away!

If you are over 18, or if he was less than 2 years older than you and you both agreed and wanted sex, then it probably would be best not to tell her, and NOT do it in the future.

Answer 2

Dont ever tell your mother anything.
You may want to tell your aunt to re-check her man. If he is willing to sleep with her own niece, than he has probably cheated several other times. Why would you do that to your aunt anyways? Especially it being your first time as well.
My suggestion to you is that you should be more worried about telling YOUR AUNT that you slept with her boyfriend, rather than telling your mom that you had sex in her bed. By the way... since it was your FIRST time, wouldnt your mother notice any spots on her bed??????

Answer 3

If i was you i wouldnt tell that is very serious if you you dont tell your gonna have to carry it on ya shoulders the rest of your life but also it depends on how you feel about the other person that you had sex with if you love him an you kno he loves you an wants to be with you then you might as well tell an try an make a happy life your gonna have probs with your family though considering you messed with your aunts man hope this was helpful

Answer 4

This guy sounds like a real scuz. Tell your mom that he's doing her sister wrong and that she needs to help you deal with a situation that's just way over your head. "Mom, I was messing around, but I didn't think it would really go there cause he's aunt ___'s boyfriend. Now I feel like crap and I want to warn aunt ____ so she doesn't find out what a pig he is later and get her heart even more broken."

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Answer 5

Your aunt's boyfriend took advantage of you being naive and young. You need to have some respect for yourself and your aunt. Sleeping with that cheating lowlife is disrepecting yourself and your family. Tell your mom and hopefully she will take you for counseling so you don't become a promiscuous person. You are better than that.

Answer 6

Hmmm. According to your Q&A, you're 8 months pregnant by your uncle. Now, you're saying you had sex with your Aunt's boyfriend and it was the first time? Something doesn't add up here.

Answer 7

I'm a young girl and the way I tell my mother things is by sitting down with her and giving her hints, then go on ahead and tell her the truth. It would be some yelling and stuff but nothing could really be done, cause it's a done deal.
that's my opinion .

Answer 8

What is wrong with you? You must be quite young! Sounds like he took advantage of you or you really hate your mom and your aunt!

Answer 9

Call Jerry Springer, girl!

Just kidding. Good luck with that. It depends on the situation, I would guess. How old are you? How old is he? He definitely took advantage of you, I think!

Answer 10

Are you sure you want to tell her? If you do, just sit her down and explain it. Tell her how sorry you are. You also need to tell your aunt.