i am popluar and hot why am i still not happy?

Question

help

Answer 1

Sounds like you are also conceded.
Maybe you are looking for something that is not there or your standards are set to high.

Answer 2

You prolly are a very sweet looking girl with a few friends. I don't think anyone on this post can just blab out random justifications about you not being happy. Instead you need suggestions.
If you are popular you must have alot of friends. If thats the case then you need to find out which ones would truly be there for you and which ones won't. You need to find something that you like to do. A healthy body and a healthy mind. If that doesn't help try finding a mate. For example lots a hot and popular guys are just *** holes and it's because they know they are. Go for a caring kind hearted guy that might not be prince charming looking but has a prince charming inside. Do things with him that makes you both happy because usually when your with someone things are funner. If you are hot then finding a guy shouldn't be a problem for you but trust me, many mature guys look for girls that are sweet and real and not fake. Alot of what popularity these days is fake and is how you have to look for others. Live for yourself and find someone that likes YOU for your REAL self.

Answer 3

Okay, ignore all the insults everyone wants to give to someone who seems to think highly of themselves. Who are we to judge whether or not you're hot, right?

Maybe you're not happy because you're too busy trying to make sure you maintain your popularity instead of being true to yourself. It seems to me that you are probably middle/high school age, so let me shed some light that you may have already heard. Everyone that you're hanging out with, those kids who follow you around like little puppy dogs...in ten years, you're not going to know where half of them are, how they are doing, etc, and you're not going to care.

You're at an age where you are starting to find out what kind of woman you're going to be, what kind of woman you want to be. Take this time, now while you still have it, to find out more about yourself. Do some volunteer work, take up some craft classes, or try out a few sports even. Get a job, and keep it. These are all things that will introduce you to new people...people who will change your life, make you a stronger, more assured person.

In short, quit worrying about being popular and hot, and start worrying about who you are and who you want to be. Learn about yourself....to thine ownself be true....and then you can be happy, because then you'll truly love the person within.

Answer 4

Maybe because you're the only one that thinks you're "popluar and hot" !!! But if there are others that think that, and say that, do YOU know why or realize why they think that and/or say that? Knowing the answer to that, will help you a lot !!!

Answer 5

Think, why is being popular so important to you? So do you like to feel your better then everyone else? Okay, sure. But that's not truely happiness. Being happy is in your mind set. If your a negative person, things just won't be great for you. Try doing things that you enjoy doing, or try new things. Maybe even try saying hi to people you normally don't talk to! And think to yourself that you totally just made that person's day just by saying hi! You'll feel like a good person inside, not just popular on the out. I hope this helps.

Answer 6

Popluarity fades with time, soon all those friends you had will be gone, find a few close friends, do some volunteer work- and find what makes u happy.

Answer 7

May Be Some Wish Of Yours Is Still To Be Fufilled Popularity Is Not Everthing

Answer 8

Do you use your charm, charisma, and looks as currency? I'm not being rude. Many years ago I thought I was Mr. Popular. Maybe I was. Maybe not. But I expected my ability and interest in making others laugh, have fun, etc., to result in them seeking to please me also. It never worked out that way. I always felt a little empty ..... Like I'd give and give sincerely, only to have others never really seem interested in reciprocating ..... not sincerely anyway. I guess somewhere along the way I stopped caring whether or not I got back what I gave. Now, I just give and have fun simply because I enjoy it. If others love it, cherish it, and reciprocate, great. If not, nothing is lost. I'm still pleased with myself, with life, and all that stuff ..... Blah, blah, blah ..... and blah ..... ;-) ..... I hope that helps a little.

Answer 9

Probably because you are too shallow to be truly happy. There is so much more to life than being popular and hot. Happiness has to come from the inside, not outward sources like popularity and beauty.

Answer 10

Being popular and hot depends on what other people think of you, and is not a reliable source of hapiness. For a real feeling of worthyness (in order to feel happy, we need to feel that we are worthy of hapiness), find something positive that you can do by yourself, and make a habit of it. As you get better at whatever activity you choose, you will begin to discover the joy of real self-esteem.

Answer 11

wow...most peple don't call themselves hot. and being popular doesn't always meen everyone likes you. if, i am assuming, you are a cheerleader, here are the people that (in my school) should or might automaticly hate you because of what you are, not who:
goths,
skater
dance team
some band members
hippies
those 'friends' that are slightly less popular thn you...watch your back, and your step, i am friends with people in all those kinds of people, and when ou come back for your 10th highschool reunion, you might be surprised to find the nerds don't show up because they are rich, and those hot guys over there, they are the nerds...the average looking girls, well your nothing now. the kids who were always in trounle, either they got over it, or they are in jail. hey, your mortal enemy of the 12th grade just might be the next Angelina...