i tell him about my finance problem..he tell me he wants to give some money through my account.
actually i just tell him my problem, but will never ask his money..i'm not dat kind of girl..
2006-07-11 17:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Me, I wouldn't give it to him. If I was ever in big trouble and I knew I could trust him completely, I'd rather go with him to exchange money in accounts so I could give my number, but he wouldn't need to know.
Husband or fiance, I'd say sure, go for it! They seem more permanent than 'boyfriend.' But that's just me ( :
2006-07-11 17:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mandi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better he just give you the money, in the form of a check or money order, and then you deposit it in your account. You don't want him messing with your account and you don't want that number to end up in the wrong hands-if he wants to help, open a joint account or have him write you a check or get you a money order. Just tell him you are more comfortable doing it this way, and if he truly wants to help you, he'll understand. Best of luck to you!
2006-07-12 01:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by laurarae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not sure how long have you been together. As a word of advice, you should not give him your account number. If he is sincere in helping you to solve your financial problem, he just need to talk to you and provide some advice to you.
I also dun know what field is your boyfriend working as but how close both of you are, dun give your boyfriend the account number.
2006-07-12 06:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just give it to him. Let him decide whether or not he wants to help you. You will always want to help your loved ones. Its an instinct... i mean its what a relationship is all about.. you want to be the hero for the one u love..
You can always pay him back when you're ready.. or return the money if you don't want it.. its no big deal..
besides, you're talking abt just the account number right? as in transfer the money from his account to your account number...? if he wants to personally handle your account... then i say.. no.. think wise dear...
2006-07-12 05:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by oribyte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't access your account (to take money out) unless he has your debit card and your PIN number or unless he has your ID and looks exactly like you. If he wants to give you money, depending on how close you are, just tell him your number. Then there's always the cash/check route as well.
2006-07-12 00:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not, repeat DO NOT give anyone your account number for any reason. especially not a boyfriend. the courts are full of people who did that.
2006-07-12 00:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him thank you and take the money and put it in your account yourself.
2006-07-12 00:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by furious but whatever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your boyfriend and you know him better than us, but if you have to ask us about about trusting him, you are in big problem and I can see many flags everywhere, why are you with this guy?
you are mature enough to taking care of your problem, but you are creating more problem to yourself. good luck
2006-07-12 01:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by sadoutlaw1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him thanks but you just needed someone to talk to about your problems and you never want to give your account number to anyone.
2006-07-12 00:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by eeyorea1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him (well her) no, and politely say that it will not happen until your are legally bound (marriage). If he doesn't respect that, then you may be better off without him
2006-07-12 00:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Matt J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋