i got a family wedding coming up. i got a bf and i am age of 21. i thought of bringing him to intro to my whole relatives. it will be a good oppurnity but wat holds me back is. since i am young i am worried one day i and this bf may not work out to wedding bells. cause who know wat happen but we have 80% confident for us on getting married. if i bring him for the funcation and one if we break up it will be great shame for me.. as all my cousin only brought their bf to intro to family when they were 27 and the got married to those guy the intro. but i am worried in my case. and it if we broke up it will tarnish our family image? should i bring him or not?
2006-07-11 16:54:55 · 3 answers · asked by Minnalgal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't it's a bad idea. trust me, I tried it before.
2006-07-11 17:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why worry about what might happen in the future, your not promise tomorrow, nor to day just the moment we are in. Family image, your only worried about what your family might thinking, later on.
So what, what everyone else will think or say,you shouldnt worry about that, your still young enjoy yourself while you can and if you really care about this guy them involved him with your family if not then go on with your life.
and dont worry about what other say or think,
you have to make your own dissions since your grown, dont let everyone else do it for you
You have your own mind and you have to do what is right for you not what is right for everyone else.
and if you chose to bring him great, if not then it is kewl
but not matter what your not going to be able to please everyone,
dont try just please your self after all you are your own person
2006-07-12 00:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by cuteangelbreeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if it's a serios relationship and you want this guy to meet your family than bring him along. If it doesn't work out, there's no shame in that. You can't compare what you do to what your cousin does. Be your own person.
2006-07-12 00:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋