2006-07-11 16:50:58 · 20 answers · asked by name w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the other person is unattached and available and you think things could spark then you should FIRST get out of the relationship you are in. Just let her down easy in the nicest easiest way...be truthful and don't make up things, just say you think it's not going to work between the two of you and you feel like you need something more in a relationship and it isn't fair to either of you to continue being together if that is the case. It's better to hurt her that way than it is to try and start the other one before you end this one because it would not be fair to her and would hurt her worse if she found out. If you are not in love with your current girlfriend then this is the best idea, however if you do love her and like the relationship you two have then this could just possibly be some kind of crush you have going on but would not grow to be as strong as the bond you have with your current girlfriend. If so then you might want to try to keep yourself from this new person and try even harder to make what you already have that much better. Good luck!
2006-07-11 16:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age... I am assuming your not a teenager... If your falling for someone else then their is something lacking in your current relationship.. if your wanting to continue on with your current relationship than I would suggest talking with your partner about what is lacking, and cut the ties with this other person. Or end the relationship that your in before you do anything with another person.......Respect and honesty are everything in life...
2006-07-11 23:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal so don't panic too much just yet. With any luck it might go away. If it doesn't then think about why you feel that way, if there's something missing from your current relationship maybe? And if you feel really tempted to do something about your feelings for the new person, talk to your current partner about it-if you don't you could end up cheating on them. Figure out whether you want to move on or you want to stay and keep trying. Just be honest with your feelings esp with yourself
2006-07-11 23:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A toughy... I guess I would have to say that maybe your current relationship isn't all that strong if you could allow yourself to fall for another. Take a deep look at your current situation first.. figure that out.. THEN move on.. Please don't move on before you can be honest to the one that you are with.. Because that is just mean and if you believe in karma..I would not recommend it. Good luck and follow your heart..
2006-07-11 23:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are "falling" for someone else than you haven't fell yet. If your relationship is worth it to you than pull yourself back up. Follow your heart. Just give it some thought. Is this relationship worth giving up. If it doesn't take you that long to answer this than you already know your answer. Cheating is not the option though. I have cheated and been cheated on. Nothing good ever comes of it. TRUST ME..... Good luck
2006-07-12 00:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rae Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your falling 4 some1 else what ever you do dont try 2 figure out that if the person that your falling 4 likes you b4 you break up with the one that your going out with now, that will just cause probs but other than that just follow your heart
2006-07-11 23:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by klo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the someone else follow yr heart man
2006-07-11 23:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like someone else, you need to break up with your partner first. You don't want to cause any undue pain to your partner. Go with whichever one you think you will be happier with. Be prepared to live with the decision you make, don't leave and then change our mind.
2006-07-11 23:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with the one that you are falling for, if she is better in bed then drop the one you are with and move on to the next.
2006-07-11 23:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you would have them do to you. Be honest up front, let them down easy but firmly. It will help you both heal faster. Do not mess around until you are free and clear. If you do how will your new love know they can trust you??
2006-07-11 23:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by BigDaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋