please help me?

Question

i got to know that im doing exactly what im scared of, im scared of lossing my friends, thinking that we used to do a lot of stuffs together, like play hide and seck, or play something, we couldnt wait to the next day to say each other, we used to wake up at 10 am, and we played everything all day long till nigth came, we didnt eat, we just laughed and play all day long, and now were like separating, not the same, thinking that now we dont do all those stuffs together, we dont give each other the time that we used to give, and i think, at my dog, when i got him, in 1998, the grandmother of one of my best friends gave it to me in october 15,only 10 days for my birthday, i was so excited about him, i just wanted to play with him, he used to give me so much time, all the time of the world to play with me, now i have 15 years, i lost my inocence, now all the time i have, i use it in my friends, forgotting that he was all the time waiting for me to play with him after school, continue>>>>>>

now, i dont even look at him, i mean, yea i look at him, some times i play with him, but not the time i used to give him, ive always sayd that animals have theyre own mind to think in, and what can he be thinking rigth now? my best friend used to play with me all the time and now he dosnt even talk to me? would he feel the same i feel about my friends?


what can i do? ok i know, spend time with him, i mean how can i stop feeling this bad?

Answer 1

You and your friends are growing up. Your thoughts, ideas and attitudes change with the onset of puberty. This is a normal part of life and nothing to feel bad or ashamed about. Find new friends that have the same interests as you do. As for your dog, well, again you are growing up and the amount of time that you once had to spend with the dog is now a lot less. What you should do though is make sure that the time you do have to spend with your dog is the best! It may only be for a 1/2 hr a day, but at least the dog will know that you love him and not feel abandoned by you. They have feelings just as you do and right now I am sure your dog is wondering what he did wrong. It prob thinks you are punishing it for something. And you know, pets make the best damn listeners too! You can tell them all of your secrets and troubles and they won't tell a soul! And they will lick you and comfort you and let you know that no matter how bad it may seem, THEY STILL LOVE YOU!

Answer 2

All I can say is that when we are children we speak like a child and acted like a child then as we grow up we put away those childish things and ways. Some times friends do grow up with each other and the friendship continues to grow with us. However there are other times when we all get other interest and just grow apart from each other