Ok..here's my question. I know I've been gay since the age of twelve, and that's ok for me. But I was wondering (if you're gay or bi) when was the age you first thought you might be? and the circumsatnces surrounding it? just curious...
2006-07-11 15:38:36 · 40 answers · asked by Dusty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-11 15:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 19⤊ 105⤋
I played around with a friend when we were around 6 or 7. I did not really know what sex was until I was 21! I grew up in the Dark Ages. :D But I think I always knew that I was way more attracted to guys than women. Good question.
2006-07-14 19:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
wow, what an awesome question. I was always kinda curious myself. Lets see...I officially came out at the age of 23...I knew I really liked girls at the age of 16. But the strange thing is I can remember my 1st grade crush being a girl. I had different sexual crush throughout the years...3rd grade I had a crush on a boy. I find both sexes very attractive but sexually I can only imagine myself with women. I have never really been a girly girly yet a butchy butchy...I was kinda in between so I guess you can say its been a real pain in the *** to figure out what exactly I am "labeled". To answer your question though, I think I always knew I was gay, just didnt know how to accept it, when i thought it was all normal.
2006-07-12 14:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jewls 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Hey, great question!!!! You know, you have a very open mind. well, ever since I can remember, I've known I was different. i couldn't just put my finger on it, but for some reason,as my friends, who were all male, liked another friends sister, i liked that other friend. For years, I tried to hide it. But, after a while,your self-esteem turns to ****, so i decided to come out during a suprise party my family threw for my 18th birthday. After that , I realized everyone knew already, but was waiting until I said something. Apprently, I've been gay since birth, and I'm okay with that. Being gay is the most beautiful thing on Earth. If you ever what to talk, drop me a line at urbania05@yahoo.com.
2006-07-15 09:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by urbania05 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I think it had to be around 8 yrs old. Im not going to go into detail but let's just say that I "discovered" myself and others very early. I don't think I knew what to call myself until 12 years old. For a while in high school I kept it in until my junior year. That was the year I told my my mom that I liked chicks. According to her I'm bi, but that's a whole other story. So to answer your question I say about 12 when I knew the catagory I was in and about 16 when I accepted it.
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2006-07-15 13:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by shay 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
i think that i've been gay or bi my whole life, i just realized it at the age of 15 when i got excited watching a picture of a naked man. now i'm 21 and i have never even kissed a man, 2 be true i just had my first crush on a guy 2 moths ago, and that's enough reason 2 consider coming out.
2006-07-15 05:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Erwin 1 · 9⤊ 2⤋
it was February 15, 2005
haha yes i know the exact date
that day i had a sudden urge to look at gay porn
errrm, weird eh? lol
anyways i was 13 and in 7th grade. i started coming out a couple months later.
2006-07-18 21:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by jguypop3 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I remember that I kissed a boy when I was 10 behind our house. I have never looked at girls at all but realized that I was to be put in a group called "gay people" when I turned 13. As most people around me only liked girls.
2006-07-12 07:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriel 2 · 13⤊ 1⤋
I was 7....played around with one of my friends....he told his mom, we all had a little EMBARRASING conference. Up until that point I knew I liked boys but I never realized it COULD be a negative thing. When did I come out....10 years later. When was I absolutley sure I was gay.....in middle school. Everyone could notice something about me that was different. Growing up in the midwest and being "different" is never a good combination. Why did I wait so long to come out? Never had a reason to. When I was 17 though....I had a serious boyfriend. I was willing to lie about myself, but not to lie about someone I cared so much for. 4 years later....we are still together.
2006-07-14 14:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by AdamDrew 1 · 17⤊ 2⤋
Well, ever since I was like small around the age of 9 or 10 I knew I was different from the other guys and girl in my school. I didn't really consider it being gay or bisexual, but I knew from the start that I was different. I'm 16 right now, and not until I was 14.5 did I start realizing that I was a bisexual. And, not until now am I starting to accept who I am. A few close friends know, and all of them are okay with it.
2006-07-12 20:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel R 1 · 19⤊ 3⤋
Oh wow!! What a cool question and there are no bigitrous, mindless posts from someone closed-minded!!
I first thought that I was gay at about 14 or 15. I was always watching the guys and thinking about them. Took me til I was 29 before I realized what it all meant and I came to grips with it all. I thought following what my parents wanted was important......PPPFFFTTTT!!!!!
I have two beautiful kids from when I was married that my partner and I are raising together. They are cool with it and my ex-wife has no problems with it either. She is involved in their lives and keeps in contact with them.
Now if I can just find out how to get rid of the association between my parents and myself, I'll be truely happy.
2006-07-13 22:32:54 · answer #11 · answered by lovefinallyfoundme 3 · 12⤊ 3⤋