i am going out w/ this guy(j) who is involved in a gang and this other guy liks me and i semi lik him but i really love my boyfriend and he told me he would leave all the gang ****! but there is supose to be a HUGE fight in lik 3 days andd he will be a part of it!! and i wanna tell him that if he really loves me he wont be a part of it! and i really dont want to loose him! im scared and i really dont kno what to do!!!
2006-07-11 15:24:14 · 9 answers · asked by ever_aj_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX you deserve better.....a gang is a bad thing to be in. A friend of mine boyfriend was in a gang and she was involved in a drive by. She died. The bullet was meant for her boyfriend. She was seven months pregnant. The baby died too.If you love yourself you'll leave this situation. I'm sure glad you are not my daughter, I'd be crying for your safety everynight. Rival gangs even go after parents, sisters, brothers, the whole family. Is this the kind of life you want? Wake up girlfriend before you're smelling the roses. (Six feet under). XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-11 15:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves u he would not be in a gang and he would not fight because if u dont want to loose him tell him that and say if u really love me u would not fight and u would drop the gang ****!!!!
2006-07-11 22:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound as if you are very young...and scared...i think that if you just turned and walked the other way everytime you saw your so called boyfriend you would be a lot better off in the long run...you think you would miss him, but, if it is boy trouble "again"...how many more times will you have boy trouble with him yet AGAIN???? if he really felt anything whatsoever for you and cared for your feelings, he would think of YOU FIRST...he would want to please you no matter what...he doesn't sound like he is willing to put you first...so, why would you feel bad for not putting him anywhere in your life?
and if this night he is going on is so BIG, then, i don't think i would want to have accessory charges brought on me, walk the other way, girl...don't run...cowards run, just confidently walk away...you DON'T need that...
what are you? just "candy" on his arm? grow up and get a real boyfriend...you ARE worth it!
2006-07-11 22:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He belongs to a gang.
That means trouble.
So, why are you complaining?
With him, you are getting what you are asking for.
This is your choice.
Even if he quits, he will be the person that thought a gang was the answer. Run aways as fast as you can.
2006-07-11 22:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he needs to make a chose you or the gang. gangs are for losers and if he chooses the gang then you need to dump him and get away from that
2006-07-11 22:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this guy, DO NOT give him an ultimatum. If he loves you he will make the right and sane decision, if not you need to move on. There is no future with him.
2006-07-11 22:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know what you should do. And i think you already know how a gang works. You are playing with fire, and you are gonna get burned.
2006-07-11 22:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad news honey he will choose his gang over you because if not they may literally kill him so he may NOT have a choice in the decision no matter what he says!
2006-07-11 22:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by wrestlersmama1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW DO YOU SEMI LICK SOMEONE
2006-07-11 22:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋