what should i do?

Question

if my husband thinks i am fat and is tring to get me to have a threesome

Answer 1

........what a f--kin jerk....my ex was like dat and i dropped him like a bad habit. ur husband is unhappy with himself. it has nothing to do with you. don't let him use u as an easy target for his unhappiness. jus bcuz ur married doesn't me u have to live like dat. it's not worth it. as far as the threesome, it's just another way of manipulating u bcuz he thinks dat u wouldn't leave him and do wat ever he wants. take ur life back.....i hate to heard sistas being taken advantage of .....and i hope i've given u encouragement. take care of urself bcuz ur worth it.

Answer 2

Say, NO! God's Will does not approve of "threesomes". Marriage is a sacred union - by a man and a woman. Do you feel you are overweight? If so, join a support group and make your goal to lose some pounds!

Good luck!

Answer 3

kelly, ask yourself is it ok for your husband to have sex with someone else with out you knowing about it ?? ask your husband the same question is ok for you to sleep around with anyone you chose behind his back ? if either of you say no then i promise you this is the makings for a divorce. if you love him or he loves you then this would be crazy. as far as you being heavy for him to say it means he is breaking you down morally and trying manipulate you. most women refuse to beleive it when its happening to them but if some man told your daughter that you would kick the mans %#$ what if some man said that your mom was you probably kick his ^$#^$ aswell. by accepting his verbal assults, or even considering yourself as fat or not beautiful it means you are accepting your fate as being a worthless human being . does your hubby actually think he is gods gift to women?? im sure he has some flaws.. on the lighter side if in fact he does push you into this three some go along with it and suggest you three have dinner and slip some salt-peter ( anti erection) into his dinner when its time for the show and his mini- me/ alterego doesn't make it to curtain call i think hell be to embarrased to try that again.( but he'll still brag how much a man he was to his friends. lol ) good luck

Answer 4

Obviously you aren't considering the 3-some, are you, or you wouldn't have asked this question.

If your husband is saying you are too heavy to have sex with alone, do you think he would really pay that much attention to you if you were in bed with him and another, thinner, woman? And how would you like that?

I think there might be a time when you have to deal with the fact that you married the wrong man. I think this might be a red flag to alert you to that. Be strong!

Answer 5

Sounds like your hubby is a jerk. if he tells you you are fat. it would be up to you if you want to have a three some. The way I always told my husband was if we each could find a female that I was attracted to I might agree. I'm not bi so he new I would never agree. but it was just a joke to us. Sounds to me your hubby eyes are wondering.

Answer 6

Your husband is a jerk for trying to get you to participate in a threesome. Don't do it.

Answer 7

Your husband is critical of you, he wants to have sex with another woman, and he is asking for your approval. Wake up, dear...he is stomping all over your self-esteem. Don't you feel you deserve to be treated better than this? Tell him if he wants to have sex with a thinner woman in your bed he can pay for the divorce and then he'll be free to sleep with anyone he chooses.

Answer 8

you should not give into that girl if he is trying to have a 3some he needs to find somebody else and if he thinks you are fat well to hell with him girl what you guys need to do is get a counselor i hope it helps
PS GOOD LUCK WITH YO FREAK OF A HUSBAND

Answer 9

do what feels right in your heart and if your husband thinks your fat let him know this bothers you...

Answer 10

Kell,
What does being flabby have to do with getting it with your man and a girl?

Does he have another girl in mind?
If so make a switch...