He has said this for a couple of times now, should I worry? I mean I trust him A LOT. He is a great guy and I don't think he'll do such a thing and he has stopped saying it. What do you think?
2006-07-11 14:17:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Please be aware that a LOT of rapes are "date rapes": the victim and the perpetrator are dating or were dating at one time.
Please call your local Crisis Center for information and confidential help. Many Crisis Centers also have a Rape Prevention/Awareness/Help group.
Not only is he threatening to hurt you, he is also bordering on abusive. Don't think that only "old folks" are capable of domestic/relationship violence.
THIS IS NO JOKING MATTER!!!
Send me a message if you wish to talk privately.
2006-07-11 14:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by queenbee 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is only kidding, it doesnt matter for it is not a funny situation for a woman to find herself in. you need to get away from him and find someone who will respect you a little more than this man obviously does or he wouldn't say such things even in fun. best of luck
2006-07-11 21:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to see the whole situation, like his body language/facial expression and the context in which he's saying this, but if he's saying this when he's all worked up and SEEMS serious, I think it might me time to move on to another boyfriend, hon....I've BEEN raped and trust me....you NEVER get over it.
2006-07-11 21:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kiss my Putt! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would point out that his statement is very creepy. Ask if he has some sort of rape fantasy.
He really needs to think before he speaks. Remember rape is not a crime about sex it is a crime about about violence.
2006-07-11 23:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make it VERY clear you don't appreciate this line or thought, or his "sense of humor."
He's threatening, if only in jest, to do the most vile and debasing thing that a man can do to a woman.
Either way - if it's a joke or if it's a threat - IT'S WRONG!
If he can't see that - DUMP HIM - he's scary.
2006-07-11 21:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is not a gentleman if he said that to you. besides, does he have any idea how it is to be raped? tell him to stop saying those things because it's not funny. and don't trust a guy who say that, that may be what is in his mind.
2006-07-11 21:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's not that great of a guy if he threatens to rape you. and even if he hasn't said it in awhile he could go back to sayin it. get out of that relationship becuz u never know when he could turn
2006-07-11 21:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Darling 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit! That's a clue that verbal abuse is on the way, if it is not happening now. Physical abuse could be next.
2006-07-11 21:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Got a Plan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and leave him from a drop of a dime.
2006-07-11 21:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not a great guy if he said that to you. Time to get rid of him....
2006-07-11 21:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Whatever 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋