What makes you attracted...( guys and girls)?

Question

Males

Like personality wise. What makes you like a female? Is it her looks? Is it the way she talks? Is it her personality? Like why do you like certain females, but not others? What do you look for in a female?

Females
Like personality wise. What makes you like a man? Is it his looks? Is it the way he talks? Is it his personality? Like why do you like certain men, but not others? What do you look for in a man? How do you like a man to approach you?

Answer 1

First thing I notice is his style first. I'm very much into their looks, their clothing, and their hygene. I like men who has a very fashionable taste. Shoes needs to be clean. They need to have great hair and a clean shaved face.
And when it comes to their personality, I like a man who is very well-mannered, and whos very independent and has a great future going on for himself. He needs to be financially stable and can take care of himself with nobody's help. I also look for a great and funny sense of humor because without that, there's nothing fun about them. Also they need to be very adventurous too.
The reason why this is my type is because I guess I can say I'm a bit high maintanance and I need someone who can keep up with my level. As long as they understand how I am, I can understand theirs too.

Answer 2

some time looks, but some times it could be they way they act. The way they flirt, the way she is around her friends, or the way she treats her family, some times the purfume that she is wearing, or the smell of her hair, Some times it the way her hair follows her. Some time it is the right tone of color of the skin, some times its the way she wear the make up. Some times it is the way she talk, or some times it is the way she listen to you. Some time it is the way that she makes her point, or how she handle her anger. And it is all ways some thing different. Like if I was dating you it could be your smile, then your best friend comes by and we like the way she stand. And deep in side our mind is how females are picked and we don't know what is the top of the list or the bottom of the list. That is a action of the brain in everyone.

Answer 3

Looks comes first in a way, because its what usually catches your eye first.

Next would be personality and the way he talks and carries himself, he shouldnt be like obnoxious or full of himself because thats a major turn off.

They should be kind, funny, caring, a gentleman, romantic and understanding.

I guess approaches really depend on the guy.

Answer 4

I used to go for looks. In the past I wanted someone who was extremely attractive. I wanted the total package. Pretty face, nice breasts, butt, legs, etc, etc, etc,. However, that wound up backfiring on me. My mother used to always tell me to watch out because "sometimes pretty can be ugly". I never really knew the meaning of this until I met my ex. After actually getting to know her, I found myself hating to even look at her. Although her physical beauty was still there, her ugly spirit was revealed and I found her repulsive. I guess you can just chalk that up as one of life's lessons. Now the thing that attracts me most is their spirit, their personality. Where I once used to find myself looking for big breasts and butts, after coming to my senses and growing up I found myself looking for smiles and cheerful attitudes. After making many mistakes I have come to learn that women who genuinely love Christ, have the compassion and committment it takes to make for a longlasting,loving, and honest
relationships. Having come to this realization, I have since been blessed with a wonderful wife who is not only a beautiful person on the outside, but also where it matters most, on the inside. I love my wife and now I only have eyes for her. Peace and God Bless.

Answer 5

Answers will depend on maturity. For me, the most attractive aspects of women are smiles and laughs. A genuinely happy person is absolutely gorgeous. I've seen women who have not been attractive, according to the modeling world, but became beautiful after getting to know their enthusiastic attitudes and warm smiles.

Answer 6

I'm attracted to females sometimes by looks. But mostley buy likes and dis likes

Answer 7

sence of humour! hes gotta be funny and he's gottta have a big sexy smile. being over 6 foot, with a fit bod, wide sholders and tight butt, also helps.......and the approach should always be original and show off his personality.

Answer 8

30% looks, 5% the way she acts and talks & 65% personality.I like indipendent, free thinking, fun, not vulnerable, calm, with own style, confident women.

Answer 9

I notice the guy by looks but i'll only go out with them if there funny, nice and respectful.