what would you do if u find out that ur own father is sleeping with many other women other than ur mom??....NOTICE: my relationship with him is not thaat good!!
2006-07-11 14:09:41 · 19 answers · asked by lil_moodi14 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's tough to accept, I know, I've been in this situation.
In my experience, the best course of action is to not get involved -- this means no hint dropping either! They are adults and capable of handling their own issues, this is their problem, not yours. Getting involved will complicate things for all of you ... especially you.
This is about *their* relationship, not yours, and they have to solve this for themselves. In this case, I've found it's best to look at it as a relationship issue between two adults, as opposed to the relationship between your parents...
I'm not suggesting that your mother doesn't have a right to know that her husband is unfaithful, I'm just pointing out the fact that it's their struggle, not yours, despite the information you hold.
2006-07-11 14:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty common for mom's and dad's to sleep with people other than their partners, and that is okay.
What is not okay is if they are lying about it, or cheating behind their partners back. If two people cannot trust one another, then the relationships will not survive.
I suggest just being honest with him. Most parents will not talk about sex, or stuff like sleeping with other people unless their chilf asks first. Ask him if your Mom knows that he is sleeping with other people, and if it is okay with her. Ask him if lying is okay, or not.
2006-07-11 14:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Atom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should maybe talk to him about it and if that doesn't work or if might cause problems in your relationship, tell your mom what you found, but you probably need proof, unless she has suspected anything. Tell your mom tho, she deserves to know the truth.
2006-07-11 14:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would subtly tell my mother about his shenanigans, and hope that she did something about it. Make sure that you have proof about those allegations, as for your mother might not feel the same way as you do. Your feelings for him may be different than hers. I will say that she probably has a notion of his doings, and is probably unsure of what to do herself. Then again, she may be totally oblivious to the affairs, and that is why you should tell her.
2006-07-11 14:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by babyashlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it! Don't "tell" anyone, but maybe leave some evidence laying around that your mom can find. Good luck.
2006-07-11 14:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yor mom! thats what i would do...but i wouldnt really care cus if yor father is that way..then he doesnt deserve yor mother. O! and y do u care anyways? r u seriously that close to yor mother? if so then tell her..she may be heart broken but at least she will know and she can do the same to him! k good luck..buh byezzz
2006-07-11 14:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by teeny* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is tuff... first of all think of all the actions that will happen if you tell your mom, what if you dont? I would probly try to get him busted without actually telling my mom but that is me and my family it may be better to stay out of it.. maybe your mom already knows.
2006-07-11 14:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by tweedle dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will try to tell me and make her believe u for the protection of her. What if he goes carry some disease and bring it home and give it to your mother w/o her knowing? U need to let her know she might not belive you but U have to try .
2006-07-11 14:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.......... this is serious............. I would tell my mom because u don't know if the women he slepin with have disease's and he might have caught something then when he sleeps with your mom she might get it. so yeah u better tell her 4 it's 2 late.
2006-07-11 14:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by french mocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible, if u love ur mother u would tell her, and confront them both together.
2006-07-11 14:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by MisSieS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋