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2006-07-11 14:07:59 · 25 answers · asked by mckenna w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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Since you're posting in Teen and Preteens, I'm guessing that you're young. The first thing you need to do is talk to an adult, such as your parents or a school counselor.

Second, you need to decide whether you want to have an abortion or if you want to give birth. If you decide to give birth, you have to decide if you want to raise the child, or give it up for adoption. At a young age, it can be hard to raise a child since you are still a child yourself.

2006-07-11 14:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Pastafarian 7 · 1 0

Start taking care of your body and start thinking about the future, a job, give uprunning around(if you ever did so to begin with). Stay in school( if you are still in it.) Talk to your mom,( that is the hardest thing of all) but if you are pregnant then she will notice if you see her at all...lol...You are gonna show sometime for sure. I would keep a cool head and tell her what is going on. She knows you best and she should be able to help. Last of all tell the dad and see if he is gonna be a daddy or a sperm donor. You can do this without him if need be so do not get stressed over something as little as that. Congrats, and do not worry as scarey as it is lots of people have babys everyday and do just fine no matter what age they are.

2006-07-11 21:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Skywolf's Princess 2 · 0 0

Discuss the problems with your parents and try not to hide it. Pregnancies cannot be hidden. Perhaps it sounds difficult and scary to tell your parents, but that is really the best solution in this matter. Don't do anything rash or take careless actions regarding something as major as this.

Look up about Holly Patterson and learn about her mistake, how her death could have been prevented if she had the courage to tell either of her parents about her pregnancy and seek their help. Instead she tried to hide it and took matters into her own hands, only to end it very badly.

Best solution, honestly, trust your parents and tell them. Expect some disappointment from them, because you betrayed their trust but they wouldn't leave you by yourself.

I am neutral on abortion, but would it be right for a baby to be aborted for an act done by his parents, whether mistake or not doesn't matter. But if you and your parents feel that an abortion will provide the best conclusion and future for you, then be it that (I suppose).

2006-07-12 02:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by josephine 1 · 0 0

Tell your mom or dad right now. it will be hard but if your old enough to have a baby your old enough to tell that your gonna have a baby. Just say "umm mom, dad, this will shock you but im pregnant". They will probably cry or yell at you for a long time but will more likly help support you. Try to hold on to the babies daddy cuz it will make life so much easier. Think about either adoption or abortion. Stay in school! Education will set you free! Go to college and finish! Do what you have to do so you can go to school. Good luck. P.s.-if your guy dumps you, its normall especially for 15 years old and younger (i know your 15 cuz of your other questions).

2006-07-11 21:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by summer luvver :D 3 · 0 0

Tell an adult. I was pregnant at 16 and kept it hidden from my parents for almost 6 months. That was the longest 6 months of my life. Abortion is an option of course; however, consider that your child is alive now and that it deserves to live. Take care of yourself and remember you aren't the first and won't be the last. Hold your head up and don't let anyone put you down. Teens can have children and everything turn out to be just fine. I had my lovely daughter at 17 and she is beautiful now. She looks a lot like me and has two great kids of her own.

2006-07-12 07:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

beeing pregnet is know joke and sometimes it can be a hard thing to deal with but u got to tell your self that u can make it through something like this and yes your thinking that thers allways abortoin but abortion is just one person who will never see that world speak run or touch so if u think about doing that think befor u do it but if your under age you need to tell somebody and get help befor it's to late

2006-07-11 23:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by spongebobchick212 1 · 0 0

well ur pregnant and ur probably young and scared trust me ive been there abortion could be an aption but it will kill ur baby but ur memory never and u will regret it so if u really are scared and afriad youve just fell and landed on ur feet and its time u go talk to sum1 u trust and will support ur dicison watever it might be there are far more options than abortion there is adopiton if u dont think u could take care of a baby this would be a great disicon and then there is u taking care of ur responsibilty now wat i am gonna say dont take it to tha *** but if u wer old enough to have unprotected sex ur its not ur babys falut and he/she deserves tha best in life so i hope u make a good dicison tha best of luck

2006-07-12 02:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by esa_babydoll_x3 1 · 0 0

u must be a teen or a preteen but how old excatly? and u should tell ur parents or parent or whatever. they'll find out soon enough when ur belly gets big. but don't get an abortion becuz that's cruel and if u don't want the baby give it up for adoption.

2006-07-11 21:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by r.n.b 2 · 0 0

u must be a teen or a preteen but how old excatly? and u should tell ur parents or parent or whatever. they'll find out soon enough when ur belly gets big. but don't get an abortion becuz that's cruel and if u don't want the baby give it up for adoption.

2006-07-11 21:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Darling 4 · 0 0

How old are you? Do your parents know, cause that's the 1st step. Next, ya gotta know the father. Hopefully you had "fun" with just 1 guy, or else you are a slut.(no offense) The next 9 months are gonna be tough, but you gotta pull through.

2006-07-11 21:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0 0

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