Is it WRONG TO TEASE men??

Question

I love to entice guys and get them all excited with the way I flirt, look..etc.. BUT I make sure that the guy knows about my choice of abstinence! Is this wrong?? I am really good at getting them all hyped up whether in person or on the phone. What do you think??
I only tease my boyfriends though!!

NOTE: This question is a repeat because I want people to know that it's ONLY my boyfriends! I don't tease other guys.

Answer 1

Lol, this question reminds me of this FWD on Myspace....:

"This was written by a guy... it's pretty damn smart. Girls -- Have a sense of humor!

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

FOR EXAMPLE:

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said, "WHAT??!! What was that?!"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...

"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, "Lets get a pair for each outfit."

We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis.

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, "I think this is all
dear, let's go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, "WHAT?"

I then said, "Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either....but at least that ***** knows I'm smarter than her. "



Think about it, lol. It's not an exact answer to your question, but hopefully you'll notice why your question reminded me of this. Be nice :p

Answer 2

It doesn't matter who you tease, even if they know your stance on abstinence. It is WRONG. How do you think that makes them feel? They expect you to carry through with your teasing and enticement. Once you don't they become frustrated and probably angry to boot. You had better be careful, because, one of these days, you'll tease the wrong 'boyfriend' and end up in trouble.

Answer 3

Yes. If you choose abstinence, and you get your boyfriends all worked up, you never know, bad things could happen. It's wrong to tease anyone anyway.

Answer 4

It doesn't matter what guys you tease. I personally think that you are a total and complete bastard for cock-teasing any guy. Period.

Just like when a guy would do that to a chick, she would go MENTAL. So why can't we do the same? Because the "Furry Magnet" has strange powers.

Answer 5

yea its wrong to tease men. Its not right to tease whether its your bf or not. You get a guy all hyped up for nothing. Not only is it wrong, it can be dangerous. You might do it to the wrong guy and when you tell him to stop, he wont. becareful of what you do

Answer 6

Its ok if it is only your boyfriend and he is totally clear about your desire for abstinence. If you think it bothers him perhaps you should ask him and then make a decision whether to continue with the flirty teasy behavior, it is alot of fun to do but if he cant handle it then it is not nice to do.

Answer 7

You're going to get raped if you are not careful, and yes.. that's very wrong. If you are enticeing guys because you get off on it and they aren't getting anything in return then that's selfish and there's nothing worse than a onesided relationship.. don't you think?

Answer 8

I LOOOOOVE to tease. I tease my boyfriend, as well as my friends who I know will be uncomfortable when I do it. It's just too damn fun. Unfortunately, my boyfriend gets back at me when I want it...he'll stall for half an hour and laugh at me.

Answer 9

It's called Þ®ǐČΚ teasing & it's thoughtless/cruel, even if it's just your boyfriend, & young lady, it's "flirting" with danger....one day one of them may not be able to stop & you may just get raped, & sure, he may go to jail, but trust me, YOU will never recover from the trauma, so if you know what's good for you, you'll stop this behavior.....NOW!

Answer 10

I used to be really good at making idiots like you embarassed that you even tried to play stupid little games.

If the guy is dumb enough to not figure it out, he should be played all the way to the bank.

Answer 11

Yeah