They laughed so I guess they were joking and thought it was funny. but I didnt think it was a funny comment, it hurt me. :(
2006-07-11 13:58:28 · 24 answers · asked by bmwshelly 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Your avatar makes you look a little heavy, but it is still reasonably rude to tell someone that they are overweight unless their health is at risk. Not ok, esp. with the boob comment.
I don't mean to sound cruel, but when very overweight people justify their weight or say "big is beautiful", its rather pathetic. Fat isn't beautiful, and it isn't healthy. No one needs to be very thin, but everyone needs to make an effort to at least look healthy. This doesn't really apply to you, but I felt like saying it, so I did.
2006-07-15 07:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by reverenceofme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever left the comment about losing weight until you are 105 to like 115 is rude themselves. the person that said that comment to you about having big boobs so its okay was plain rude. and to top it off, it hurt you. anything that hurts you is rude no matter what the intentions were. people shouldnt just go up to people telling that how fat they are or ugly or whatever. as long as your a nice person inside and you have confidence in yourself, then thats all that matter hon. and im sure you have both. dont listen to people. people are cruel and will make mean jokes about anything because they dont have anything better to do. that shows that they are insecure about themselves. if you are not comfortable with yourself, then do something to change it. otherwise leave yourself be and enjoy your life.
2006-07-11 21:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by coooool cat. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude
2006-07-11 21:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice or not, is for you to decide. Some would say it was ok even though it was a joke because in some cases big is beautiful. I feel sorry for you. I have a friend who is overweight and she gets teased behind her back all the time, but she just shrugs and moves on. Besides she's nice and would still be skinny or not.
2006-07-11 21:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by wondering scholar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was plain out rude. Nothing wrong with a big woman, girl, lady, etc. NExt time you should let them know it's not something that you find funny or something they should find funny. Big Hug!!!!
2006-07-11 21:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by astrosartgirl7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the comment came from a guy-take it as a sarcastic/flirty critism.Understand?
If the comment came from a female-she should know better-I would of taken it as a joke, too.good for you!
2006-07-11 21:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by luiluiluao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has the right to criticize you. In the end people will like you or hate you depending on your attitude and personality not on your looks.
2006-07-11 21:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by njal47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude because it was. And still more rude because you felt it was.
I've heard that before myself.
2006-07-11 21:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be rude and immature Don't pay attention to them.
2006-07-11 21:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by lelekid4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was rude but kudos on the big boobs
2006-07-11 21:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by ashton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋