my boyfriend has a weird touch thing,so what should I do about cuddling and a want to go further in our relationship (not sex)with out freaking him out too bad!I am a really forward person so this isnt easy for me!I love being touched and im having trouble understanding and reading him !
help!
2006-07-11 13:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"A weird touch thing" = A rabbit...
2006-07-11 13:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by jay 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He doesn't like being touched? Sounds like you just need to initiate him in the joys of sexual intimacy. Take it slow, maybe try playing a game where you have to be close, like twister or piggy back rides and see if you can get it to lead to kissing or fondling.
2006-07-11 20:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book called the "Love Languages", it will help you understand why you need it so much and he needs it so little, and help you see what to do to compensate.
2006-07-11 20:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him about it. Tell him how much you like it and why. Maybe it will help him understand some things.
2006-07-11 20:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by theraidaz75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is take it slow and start in easy areas hands and what not don't rush though.
2006-07-11 20:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by siddragoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best option would be to take it slow. If he's uncomforatble, stop. If he's moving too slow for you, talk about it.
2006-07-11 20:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Steve-O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him a massage, a friendly massage
2006-07-11 20:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think HE would benefit form professional help.
When he gets help, perhaps you will get the help that you want.
2006-07-11 21:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by billhill1066 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy who doesnt want you to touch him is living a lie. dump that stupid ******, and find a real man
2006-07-11 21:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by john m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a guy but i can tell you wat did it for me.
if you start to touch him and rub him, hes gonna think, hm... maybe she would like that youll be thinking no sh*t sherlock and belive it or not, hell catch on. even the dumest do.
2006-07-11 20:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by killxmexkissxme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋