I divored my husand last fall. New years eve I went to this party and this guy was checking me out and I was checking him out too.We danced all not and morning then got each other #'s we mate for drinks later on that week and then got to getother every night until he had to leave and go back to NY. Yes we had sex also that last night. When we sow each other it was love at first sight. We talked and find out he was my ex-hubsand 1st cousin but they had never mate each outher because he move when he was 6 and my ex was not born yet. He come home again last week and we have been togother everyday and night this time we say how much we love each other and we won't to be togother but we are scraced what other may think. What sould we do???????
2006-07-11 13:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Wow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the shoe fits wear it and good luck
2006-07-11 14:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your allowed to cut up including your female no matter if she id no longer some thing incorrect. that doesn't make you a foul individual. She likely feels the similar way about you. yet before you chop up bypass on a romantic holiday to workout habitual if a sparks fly, if there are not any sparks then it is over. chop up. Then in reality communicate on your cousin's better 0.5 and ignore about about your cousin. As on your little ones, they could compared to you adult adult males getting a divorce, yet they're waiting to stay to inform the tale. Obama's mom and dad were divorced and look how he grew to change into out. in case you in reality make sparkling each and each and every ingredient on your better 0.5 the divorce likely ought to no longer be too messy and with somewhat of success you should all get alongside. you seem to be an ok guy you pick to be at liberty. solid fulfillment!
2016-12-01 02:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is your business not anyone else's especially a former spouse. Don't worry what anyone thinks. You didn't know they were cousins. We only have to answer to the Lord above. Just take it easy and let time prove out all. There could just be something in the family genes that attracts you. Nothing wrong with that, just as long as you are careful. Look at me, I have a particular fancy for tall hairy redheads with lots of muscles - married 2. Good luck!
2006-07-11 13:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by MotherNature 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You divorced your hubby and you are free to do whatever you want....don't worry about it...you are always going to have ppl think that you were having an affair w/ him prior to the divorce....that is just something you are going to have to deal with....I would however, tell the ex be4 you go public...give him a chance to "deal" with it.
2006-07-11 14:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody else is living your life, paying your bills, putting a roof over your head! Who cares what they think! Screw them! Do what makes you happy!
2006-07-11 14:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dilemna poses no moral or ethical issues. You met his cousin after you divorced your husband. Stop thinking so much and go for it.
2006-07-11 14:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you care who says what! It is your life, not there's, and who would say anything anyway???
2006-07-11 13:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever make you happy.go for it.
2006-07-11 14:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋