She asked me if it was ok to sleep with one other person and I can do the same, only one time!
2006-07-11 13:21:03 · 35 answers · asked by j_cal05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please notice that the heading for this category is "marriage & divorce"... marriage is what you have now (although it sounds as if at least one of you has some issues) and divorce is what you'll have if you take her up on her offer. I think she is probably wanting to cheat but also doesnt want to risk losing you until she has something better... I know that sounds harsh but hopefully you wanted an honest answer!
2006-07-11 13:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....then there would be no marriage. Life would not be the same between you two. Taking the wedding vows is sacred. You would be an adulterer...that's one of the Ten Commandments.
I can't believe there are so many sinners here and think it's ok. I'm not being self-righteous, but, if there were no rules to follow we'd all be killing one another for anything. The world has no morals. That's why when Jesus comes back He will weed out all those that have broken the Ten Commandments (except for the ones that have ask forgiveness and started a new life with Him).
2006-07-11 13:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by BelleoftheBall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well at least she was straight forward with you. How do you know she hasnt already? Personally I'd say no because a marriage is two people and only two people. Wedding vows usually include something along the lines as becoming one with each other. Another thing is I'd find out the real reason behind the question. Like why does she want to sleep with another man...are you not good enough or something? If you two do agree to this I'd be using condoms afterwards because you dont know what this other guy has. After she does her thing have her get checked. Thats what I have to say about the subject.
2006-07-11 14:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you pretty much opened the marriage up to cheating. There are other ways to be adventurous. If you guys were gonna be sharing yourselves with others, you should have done it before you got married. Now, whenever she says she don't feel like being intimate you're gonna always wonder if she's thinking of that other guy when it may not be the case. You practically watched your wife cheat on you. Thats just crazy. It's gonna eventually start messing with your ego. She's gonna have to worry about wether or not she has to even the score and let you sleep with someone else. The whole situation is gonna stir up alot of jealousy in the both of you eventually.
2016-03-27 01:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife has probably had her eye on this guy for some time. it sounds to me as if there has been a pre-relationship already in the making. i doubt if you say "no" that it will actually matter. you two really need to re-evaluate what your marriage means to you and if an open marriage would be more appropriate. is that something you're willing to live with? don't open the door to something you'll both regret. just think about it..... someone caressing her body and not to mention the hell you're going to catch at the first argument, about how you screwed another chic too. and being constantly badgered about what "she" means to you. everytime you come home late, "you were with HER, weren't you?!" and vice-versa
2006-07-11 14:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
J_cal.... i would say no especially if you have kids. the reason why i say no is the fact nothing will be the same you may think you can handle it ( and you might) she may think she can handle it ( and she might) but the odds are against the both of you handling it even if you think you can. ask your self a question would it be ok for your bride to have sex with someone with out telling you? now ask your wife if its ok for you to have sex with any one you chose??? even if you wear a condom??? if yours or her answer if no then the fact is you cant handle it and it will be the begining of your divorce. now if you and her have children..... i beg you not to consider till your kids are of age becuase not only will you have destroyed you marriage you will have litterally destroyed the only thing on this planet the means anything any. more. is that worth it ?? good luck....
2006-07-11 13:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool she wants to get your permission to cheat on you awwwwwww and how sweet , so she doesnt feel guilty about her actions she's going to let you sleep with someone else too.. what a wonderful wife u have .. NOT!!.. she already has someone in mind that she wants to sleep with and she is hoping u'll agree so that later she can say "U SAID I COULD" and not hold it against her.. if u want your marriage to fall apart sureeeeee go with her on it.. but if u love your wife, tell her absolutely not!
2006-07-11 14:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u nuts or what one time only yeah right if you think that good luck once you get a taste of someone else and you like it you will find a way to go back and get more if your married there shouldn't even be the talk of another you should be making her happy in bed and vice versa something is wrong inyour bedroom and you need to fix it fast
2006-07-11 14:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one time can turn into anthoer. What if the person you sleep with gets hooked on you or her and wants to hook up again and will interfere in your relationship to get with you or her again. What thoughts would run through your mind while she is sleeping with the other man. Will those thoughts drive you crazy.
2006-07-11 13:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by xcstbabygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is crazy and I could say that a sl** will only do such shameful things. If she is really wants to do so, it shows that she has actually done before no matter with your consent or not coz she has set her mind in doing so. Ultimately what she done will only brings harms in marriage.
2006-07-11 13:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋