2006-07-11 13:17:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know for a fact that my husband isnt cheating on me he went out of state to make money for our baby that is on the way.
2006-07-11 13:40:04 · update #1
I know its hard, my husband use to be a truck driver and it really sucked him being away from home all the time, the best advice i can give you , is realize that he doesnt want to be away from home, he's doing the best he can to make a living for you and your family.. cherish the time he is at home and dont take that time for granted.. Do corney little things to let each other know that you miss each other.. i use to write letters during the week while he was gone and put them in his bag when he came home, for when he went out again.. Alot of phone calls help as well, i think if i couldnt of talked to him as much as i did while he was gone i would of gone crazy..
Good luck..
2006-07-11 13:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him daily - call him in the evenings - write him little notes about family life back home - send him care packages with his favorite snacks, cookies and/or magazines once a while for no reason. Send him pictures of you both together - and keep your spirits as up as you can (I know it isn't easy - my husband's overseas - haven't seen him in over 9 mos.) with your children (if you have any), job, church, and any shared interests you both have - take care of your health for him too! don't let the stress tear your health down. take care.
2006-07-11 20:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by KitKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently read an article where a woman in a similar situation came up with the idea of "phone sex", which you could do on the Internet with VOIP.
2006-07-11 20:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Auriga 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do you talk each night? that helps. does he come home on weekend? go visit him one evening. Start sitting time a side for just the two of you. Try to talk with him every night that helps a lot.
2006-07-11 20:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some of those really naughty tapes and some candles. Then play hide the sausage links. I was out of town once and my wife said that's all she did.
2006-07-11 20:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go see him? Do you talk often on the phone? Pray about it. Is it possible for you to move where he is? Don't listen to the other. He is not cheating on you.
2006-07-11 20:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by AMY L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him lots of love notes or e-mails. or even set up a certain time of nite where you could have phone sex i would if my husband was away. i am sorry you are away from your husband all the time good luck.:)
2006-07-11 20:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by realquiet78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sushi, bubble baths, and FRIENDS on DVD (or HBO's Sex and the City)...time will fly!
2006-07-11 20:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by justmecharles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on you right now.
2006-07-11 20:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by ffffff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋