2006-07-11 13:16:50 · 12 answers · asked by Evelyn P53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, the psychology of it wont allow him to keep his word, of course that's if he ever agrees. I mean ask yourself would you do it? Furthermore, it depends what kind of help are you asking for, if its for the kids [if applicable] i see no reason why you should not ask him to put in writing.
2006-07-11 13:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Make him you "ex-" as soon as possible. Until you lose that "soon-to-be-" you are just a wife who choses not to live with her legal spouse.
Get an attorney, see a judge. Do it smart. Do it fast.
That's the only ONLY way, sugar.
2006-07-11 13:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it legally done by having him sign a piece of paper with all your requests on it, with the presence of your lawyer present.
2006-07-11 13:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not in writing , you are doomed! It will be your word against his in court and the only thing a court will understand is paper.
2006-07-11 13:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you secure a written agreement!!!!! Have it notarized. A hand shake is quickly forgotten.
2006-07-11 13:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words, court order.
2006-07-11 14:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kay D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him sign something and get it notarized explaining your exact agreement?
2006-07-11 13:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by sbear_85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as horible as it sounds, get a mediator or attorny. I've been there...this is the best way.
2006-07-11 13:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by justmecharles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends who called it off, but in reality its a divorce...meaning go seperate ways leave him alone...its his money.
2006-07-11 13:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it in writing
2006-07-11 13:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋