I have been lonely through my entire life with no peers, no friends.so i lack some important social skills in communication. I usually spends my time alone at home. I am not really good at anything. i am not that bad looking. Can I have friends too? Tell me how can I meet people and make friends and stay the same.Thank you
2006-07-11 12:47:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sure you can make friends....If you are a decent and nice person...you can make friends. Even if you aren't, you can still probably make friends. I would suggest you get out there..and its tough I know...try joining clubs or organizations that are doing things you are interested in. There, you will be instantly more comfortable since you both share the same interests. Do you have a family member who might also join with you...if so, it will be easier for you...try volunteering..you help the community and you feel good and you meet new people too! Good luck.
2006-07-11 12:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make friends and stay the same. Once you have friends everything changes. But I think you should join a club, take up a hobby at your local college so you are a part of a team learning things (something you choose, cooking, gardening) maybe team building will help your confidence to get out and meet people a bit more. Best of luck!
2006-07-11 12:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by SheBiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest to go to the bar, my sis was like that and now she's more confident than i am
buy the first person (guy or girl depending on which way you swing) a drink =)
2006-07-11 13:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a class. Go to church. But if you think you are a bore, then others will too!
2006-07-11 13:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by ldylili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the same way. srry, though, i can't help u, i don't know how to make friends, either
2006-07-11 12:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by smc s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋