I crave and desire it just like my boyfriend. I want to have a threesome, so I can get this outta my system but i don't know where to look. I wont feel right if it was a friend of mine. I live in Charlotte, NC. Please Help. Also how can I make this pleasureable and not ackward??
2006-07-11 12:40:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are not looking for a male...ewww..gross...I'd freaken pass out if I seen my man with another man. With a woman...a threesome with a woman.
2006-07-11 13:12:54 · update #1
Very dangerous proposition. Too many diseases out there. Unless you make the person you select get tested you are running the risk of getting all kinds of STDs including HIV or AIDS. Is it really worth it?
2006-07-11 12:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask a friend that you trust to join in , first. Meeting the 3rd person at a club scene brings in the high possibility of Disease and that isn't any fun because most of them get Aids and HIV through that way.
Dangerous practice. Keep it between people that you know and trust and know their sexuality and their desires too.
2006-07-11 12:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are talking real adult stuff here and your Q indicates that you are not really "all grown up"
not only do you need advise on finding a third person, you're not even sure how to deal with this fantasy should it become a reality.
one last thing, a fantasy is only a fantasy until you've lived out that fantasy...and then its back reality. are you prepared to face the consequences once it is all over and done with - i guarantee you that your relationship with your bf will change - and i don't think for the better.
should u decide to go ahead, good luck and enjoy.
2006-07-11 13:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask a pal that you've self belief to hitch in , first. assembly the third human being at a club scene brings interior the extreme possibility of ailment and that is no longer any exciting because optimal of them get Aids and HIV by employing skill of that way. volatile practice. reserve it between those who you comprehend and trust and comprehend their sexuality and their needs too.
2016-11-06 05:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have the same kind of problem. We both want to explore those kinds of things, but I don't want any of my friends, and I am afraid to just pick someone up at the bar. In the past, before I met my hubby, I was always the odd man in the couple, you know the #3 that came in, and now that the roles are reversed, I have no clue where to begin. So if you figure it out, please let me know.
2006-07-11 12:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Are you looking for a male or female? Males are always availible, you might have to travel to meet another female. If this is something you just want to try, find a female/male who lives in another town. It helps with the comfort level if you don't really know them!!
2006-07-11 12:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by fade4pink 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
LMAO @ get it out of your system! you think thats gonna work? it isn't, what its going to do is ruin your relationship so skip all the drama, leave your bf so he can find a girl thats happy with him and go do whoever you want. it will change the way he sees you forever and he'll never feel the same way about you again, thousands of people have tried this, it worked for about 2 of them.
2006-07-11 12:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
There's always Craig's list. Just set it up you can check out the candidates very carefully.
2006-07-11 12:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask some one u can trust if they would ever have a threesome tell them you wont to and would the join you
2006-07-11 12:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say you're off to a good start!
(you just asked thousands of people, nothing beats advertising.)
2006-07-11 12:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by miss_nursie_nurse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋