yea this woudl be a big issue with me
2006-07-11 12:35:58 · 50 answers · asked by Chelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so we were together 1st and she kinda stole him from me some how i really odnt know how that happened but he ended up breaking up woth her because he wanted me back and i never stopped liking him it's just i don' want to mess up the relationship between me and my friend. when i told her i liked him and we were considering going out she like took him from me and i was pissed but i tried to get over it and just be a good friend to her and not care about my own feelings
2006-07-11 14:28:09 · update #1
So wrong on so many levels.
Too much drama.
2006-07-11 12:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by m_thurson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not such a big deal if there totally over one another and they aren't into each other anymore, you don't own someone after you've dated them... Out of common curtosey it is a friends responsability to ask that friend if it's okay to date their ex.. I mean at the end of the day, there split up and single, but it makes you look better if you let things cool down before you run for home base...
2006-07-11 12:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its good because there are so many cute guys and girls out there and there arent as many true friends out there. Alot of the time u get a bad rep. when u date a friends ex.
2006-07-11 12:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it! at least you know where they've been. It's called networking. If one of my ex GF's was happy with one of my firends good for both of them. It never bothered me...
My one friend that had a huge issue with that had a TINY penis. You could see how that could go for him.
You most likely had some issues with clinging on. DON'T BE A CLINGON! LOL
2006-07-11 12:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda depends--see, I live in a town where almost everyone knows my ex-husband, or my ex-boyfriend, so it looks like I am pretty much SOL--really sucks, no one wants to give me a chance because they know one of my exes, and I'm not a bad person, or a ***** or anything.
2006-07-11 12:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Amy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just as bad of an idea as your friend hooking up with your husband before you even know you are getting a divorce.
A true friend would never get with any person that you were with
2006-07-11 12:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shady! At some point it's always going to be weird. Weather it's the one guy saying "you stole my girl" or later the new guy saying "you use to bang my girl" it's just not good.
2006-07-11 12:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by miss_nursie_nurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when your friend hooks up with your ex that means there are not really your friend .Because if they were a real friend they would know that it would hurt your feelings because thats your ex it dosen't feel right.
2006-07-11 12:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by dudagotsluvv4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is nuts. I personally wouldn't even consider one of my friends ex. There is a reason they are an ex. Plus it would get uncomfortable.
2006-07-11 12:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Constance Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big problem. There is no friendship essentially if the friend hooks up with the ex.
2006-07-11 12:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by KelBean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very delicate topic of conversation with many.
Best thing is to set people up with people that you don't associate with or like very much, so you can escape and move on to people that truly value your sense of Trust and your sense of people better.
2006-07-11 12:39:22 · answer #11 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋