What care should pregnant women do?

Question

Any tips for a pregnant women??
i m 7th month pregnant and although i m very happy but had a lot of painy feelings.
When i move it causes pain,even when i laugh or cough. i cant even work properly,
i really feel very very tired at times.
i also at times had a feeling of hurt burns n nausea n some times i vommit as well.
I have grown very very fat.
Even at nights i cant sleep properly.
although i m very excited but this all pan stuff is creating a lot of problems for me.
Please help me.
similarly one of my husband's friend is creating a lot of problems for me . She flirts with my husband all the time and is always against me.It looks as if she wants to hurt my baby n me.
I dont knw wht to do.
Sometimes i really had bad dreams as well.
Please help me n tell me wht should i do?
Feel free to add me at [e-mail] , so that we can have some chat over these issues as well.

Thanks for ur concern.

Answer 1

Well for the pain talk to your doctor about it; but if nothing is OK for you to take do some gentle stretching and go to a maternity store or WalMart and buy a belly belt. I had ALOT of pain with my first and they told me it was from the tendon that runs across your lower abdomen stretching. I always kept some tums handy for my heart burn and I've heard that ginger tea can help with nausea. Walking is the only help I can offer about your weight issue,your pregnant, gaining weight happens. Walking also makes your delivery easier.
As for your husbands friend does he really feel that it is appropriate to have a female"friend". I would have a serious conversation about how this whole situation is making you feel and if he loves you, he will listen and respect your feelings. He needs to understand that being pregnant makes a woman very vulnerable and that you really need to feel like you have his support.
Ask God to help you have peace and to help you in this time of need. Prayer works!

Answer 2

First of all, I don't think stressing is the best thing for the baby. Too much stress isn't the best. It actually affects the baby greatly. You need to talk to your husband about the lady who is flirting with him and you need to tell him that you need him by your side at this point in life. Vomiting, pain, and tiredness is normal for pregnant women. Yes, you might not be able to sleep very well. But remember, you do need to get some sleep. Everything single thing that you do now does affect the baby. If you don't get enough rest, the baby will be tired as well. If you think you are having too much pain and you just can't take it anymore, do go see a doctor. All of the symptoms you've listed is normal, however, if it goes too far, it could be bad. Bad dreams are always possible. If you don't want to go see a doctor, maybe you could e-mail a doctor or something. Since you are pregnant, eat healthy food, such as salads, fruits, and not too much meat. Eating too much meat could have your baby to have some allergies when the baby is getting older. So, limit the meat. You should always take warm showers, not too hot nor too cold. Sleep warmly...Since you said that you can't really sleep properly, you should exercise a little before you go to bed. Just a light exercise helps the baby and it probably will make you tired, so you'll fall asleep. I hope all this does help you. I am just a teenager but I do know a lot about pregnancy because I am looking forward to become an OBGYN doctor. Just remember: Think happy. Too much stress means BIG stress for the baby. You need to be calm and happy. I hope you have a wonderful day. Do pray a lot. Go to church and ask the pastor for a prayer just for you even if you are not a Christian. God will help you no matter what. Besides, you'll feel better too. God bless you~

Answer 3

First, make sure you take prenatal vitamins everyday. There is also yoga made for during pregnancy that can really help and costs only $8-9 for the video. Aside from that, you are just getting into the third trimester where the baby is bigger and it's uncomfortable. Try to rest and stretch out when you can, seep on your side, maybe with a body pillow going in front of your stomach and between your legs, it may help. Concerning the other woman, be good to our man, let him know how much you love him, do as much for him as you can, and keep him happy....happy men don't have the desire to stray. How much weight you gain doesn't matter because you can start working out after and lose that weight, post-pardum is the easiest time ever to lose weight. I gained 50 lbs and lost all but about of it. Don't worry about her trying to hurt you, but if she so much as threatens you, I'd call the cops and issue a restraining order against her. That way if she ever comes near you again, you can have her arrested just for being near you.

Answer 4

I just had my baby 5 months ago and all the physical discomforts you described are very much like what i went through. Physically I was miserable even though i was happy and excited that i was having a baby.
It's really crummy that your husband hangs around a chick that acts that way when she knows he's married and that you're expecting. Even if she's being disrespectful to you that's one thing, I mean, it's not right but you can't control her behavior.
Your husband, on the other hand, SHOULD stick up for you and defend you and his baby to the death! Why isn't he setting her straight or just staying away from her altogether?
Feel free to e-mail me if you'd like.
By the way, speak to your doctor about what you're going through. Most OBGYN's are concerned about every aspect of your life when you're pregnant including your mental and emotional health. My doctor often asked me about stress at home and at work and encouraged me to be selfish during my pregnancy. Maybe if you mention what has been going on he'll talk to your husband about the stress you've been going through. I know that even when you talk to your husband they don't always listen unless it comes from somebody else.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Welcome to the last trimester of pregnancy. I was so miserable at this stage I couldn't sleep much, was highly fatigued just from walking in the grocery store. I was too the point of ok you can get out now! The dreams are from the pain with the baby moving and just being inside you in general. Talk to your Dr, he/she may have somethings you can do. As for your husbands friend keep her away from you and your husband until you can better view the situation.

Answer 6

I would be lying if i said don't be concerned with the other women but try hard to focus on your baby..if you feel you aren't gettin the the love and comfort at home that you sooo deserve..seek it somewhere else..or have a serious discussion with the Mr.

Answer 7

Talk to your doctor about the pain and ditch the friend. Then slap the Mr, and ask him what's his issue!!

Answer 8

talk 2 the person that is flirting with ur husband and tell her that ur not comfortable with her around ur husband and also talk 2 ur husband and tell him that ur not comfortable with him around his friend and also tell him that ur afraid that she might hurt ur baby
hope this works for u

Answer 9

Talk to your doctor. As for your friend,she's no friend at all if she's flirting with your man. Get rid of her.

Answer 10

You need to see a OB/GYN doctor immediately or go to your local hospital