well he is my hystory teacher he is so hot that sometimes i stare at his a ss what can i do to tell him i in love
2006-07-11 12:27:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can tell him you love him, but he more than likely wont feel the same way, and you have to be prepared for any answer you get. If you are really in love with him, his happiness will come before yours. Telling him how you feel will probably ruin your friendship with him... be prepared for the possibility for that too. How much older is he than you? Just be prepared for anything that may happen!
I wish you the best of happiness and luck!
2006-07-11 12:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by m_thurson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a bad thing that you are attracted to older women. Older women are more self confident and sure of themselves, which is sexy. Many older women are independent and so don't have to ask permission or beg for money to buy their own stuff, and isn't that sexy? They have pride in themselves but have matured beyond wanting to look like everyone, they want some individuality. They have lived long enough to have some experience about this living thing, maybe some loving things too. Many have had sex before so will be the more experienced sexual partner and be able to teach you things. And I don't think women (or men) reach their physical potential until they are way out of their teenage years. So I don't think your fascination with women older than yourself is strange. However, at 14 I do think you need to keep them under control and not do anything to encourage a relationship. If some "cougar" did take you up on your offer, she could be sent to prison for corrupting a minor. Bide your time and keep it under wraps until you are out of your teen years. Then if you still feel the attraction you're more likely to find a woman who is looking for a younger boyfriend/lover rather than a woman looking for a little brother. You have time and women are getting better and better with age. And not all love relationships are where the guy is older and the girl younger--many of the married people I know are where the woman is at least a few years older than her husband and they've worked just fine.
2016-03-27 01:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relize hes your teacher and dont. You might even want to find out if hes even gay and if hes even single. Otherwise you put your self in a very bad situation. How much is th age difference. Even if he is gay and aviable he cant go after a 16 year old kid. thats just wrong. Lust isnt love by the way.
2006-07-11 12:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jakefeatherston2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't.. dating a teacher is usually not possible. There are rules about it so even if he was interested, he would risk losing his job.
If it is meant to be, maybe you will bump into him a year from now and catch up on lost time. Happened to me..
Crushes are great, keep him in your imagination until your out of school or at least out of his class.
2006-07-11 12:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by rnscrappyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that he is your teacher - which means there isn't going to be a relationship between the two of you. You need to realize that it's never going to happen and start moving on.
2006-07-11 12:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your not in love your in lust! C'mon go to school and learn...get a grip. Go to a gay club if want someone..teacher not a good idea.
2006-07-11 12:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should, because even if he liked it, you could get the poor guy in trouble. In life, just as with homosexual people, heterosexual people also must fact trials where we see someone of the opposite sex that turns us on, but we must not lower ourselves to that of animals and have sex with everyone. Relationships should be with special people only.
2006-07-11 12:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't say a word, you realize its a crush and shut up about it. it will pass and there is no way in the world it can work or even happen, not without someone going to jail. so daydream all you want but keep quiet about it.
2006-07-11 12:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you need to pay more attention to your English teacher
2006-07-11 12:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by itsa_me23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you fear God and men. Don't you know that gay people are against life. What if your mother or father was gay? They would never gave birth to you.
2006-07-11 12:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋