Why do I feel this way???

Question

I know that I havent miscarried because there is no blood and my hormone levels keep going up.. But is it normal to not feel pregnant anymore? I am so scared. I know that I have no control over what happens but for someone to go thru what I went thru before would completly understand. (Ectopic Pregnancy, Ovarian Cysts, Major Surgery) 2 1/2 mths pregnant and its not in my tubes but I'm still scared...

Answer 1

It might not be that you don't feel pregnant it's just that you have gotten used to the idea of being pregnant. Also with what you have went through you may feel worried to get to excited because you worry that something bad could happen so your subconsious is just protecting you from another let down. Don't worry less stress is best! You'll start to feel pregnant again especially when you've gained 20 lbs and can no longer see your feet! Good luck and congradulations!

Answer 2

I can't tell you that everything is okay with your pregnancy, only your doctor can reassure you of that. But I can tell you that it is perfectly normal for a pregnancy not to feel real. It is hard for something like this to sink in and really feel like a reality at first, sometimes even longer. With my first pregnancy there was such a sense of unreality that I don't think the whole thing felt like it was actually happening until my daughter was born. With the history you have I certainly understand your feeling scared, but don't worry that you don't "feel" pregnant because many women don't and their children come out perfectly healthy.

Answer 3

At 2 1/2 months I didn't even know I was pregnant, I didn't know until the 3rd month. I didn't even get morning sickness until the 4th month. Everyone is different and because of all you have gone through is partially the problem. Think about the things you have overcome and have a baby coming. Yes, having a baby is scary. I felt the same way!

Answer 4

ehhh, it's something I went through, but I think it is just how you may be coming to cope with the fact that you are pregnant. I was scared my self because I had misscarried less than a year before my pregnancy...but now I have my darling Angel and she is a beauty. I would say don't worry about it. Everything should be okay.

Answer 5

As you near the second trimester the symptoms do go away, so don't worry as long as the doctor seems to think things are going well. I can relate though as I have had 3 miscarraiges before my last healthy pregnancy and when my symptoms would ease I got scared to death. I wish you the best of luck and God Bless

Answer 6

At 2 1/2 months, you may not feel pregnant, but are still pregnant. If it eases your mind, see a doctor, take a home pregnancy test... but be happy while you can if you don't feel it. You will later.

Answer 7

I felt that way when I was pregnant, too. The shock of finding out you're pregnant is wearing off, but you're not far enough along to feel the baby or look pregnant. Just relax and give it time....Good luck!

Answer 8

It is more likely the fact that your scared.. I had several problems with my 2 pregnancy. I know it just doesn't seem real but wait till you hear the heartbeat and get swollen feet! Good luck and God Bless

Answer 9

the last thing you need to do is dwell on the what if's that only draws more negative energy your way and is not good. think happy thoughts you are finally pregnant! try to focus on that evergy source inside you once you are aware of it you'll better bond with your unborn child and be able to feel better. relax

Answer 10

you might not feel sick anymore,just give it a little bit.you'll feel pregnant soon enough. But to be on the safe side call your doctor and see what he/she thinks. Good Luck