i get this friend and she think it is a good thing to have it at the age of 13 i am 12 and i say no but she is like a whoes
2006-07-11 12:13:38 · 40 answers · asked by paulina s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
13 is absolutely too young to have it. At that age you aren't mature enough to handle the feelings that go along with it.
2006-07-11 12:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what is right. RESPECT yourself...you are both special. If your friend is having sex at 13, she is probably looking for love and acceptance and going about it all wrong!!! Unfortunately, boys at this age take advantage and care little for the girl they have sex with. It is best to wait until you are older; more mature..The things that can happen in your friends case is...she gets a Very BAD reputation, Some deadly disease or becomes pregnant..None of which makes for a bright future..I hope that your friend realizes the dangers and risks of having sex today..The fact that she is 13 is is irrelevant. It doesn't make her bad, just Foolish...
2006-07-11 12:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does everyone think of your friend? More than likely they all think she's a ho! I'm sure you don't want people to think of you that way. Having boys pay attention to you is cool, but not only until they hit it! If you hold out they respect that. Go ahead and flirt have fun but, slow it down you're still young. You'll know when it's the right time for you. You won't have to ask a bunch of strangers. It will just seem right.
2006-07-11 12:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by miss_nursie_nurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not "bad" necessarily, but kids you and your friends age are just plain not mature enough to deal with the pressures and responsability of sex. What if she got a disease? What if she got pregnant? Heck, at that age, what if her parents found out!!! I know you cannot control your friends behavior, but for yourself, i would suggest holding out until you are truly ready and have matured and met someone special. Noone is special enough at 13 to be having sex, cause if something happens unexpectedly, what 13 year old is mature enough to handle a child?
2006-07-11 12:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your Morales it is or it isn't. To me, not only is it bad, its ILLEGAL. ( Under Va. law, you have to be 16, i don't know how it is there) Plus, what thirteen year old girl in her right mind would be thinking about sex. 13 yr olds should NOT be thinking about that kind of stuff!!! There are so many sexually transmitted diseases out there its dangerous, you never know what someone has or who else they have done, or where they have been. You could even get pregnant. Just remeber to save yourself for later on in life, you'll find that one special person, just not at thirteen.
God, what is the world coming to????
2006-07-11 12:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by inmyownreality23323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well making love should be with someone you love , and I doubt at 13 anyone is ready for love much less anything else ....... So No would be my advice to you or anyone else..... enjoy your childhood , because you are just that a child. When you are an adult and can deal with the ups and downs of a relationship !!!!!!! not just because you think you should, then you'll know when the time is right.................... right now have fun and respect yourself.
2006-07-11 12:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK for 13. I think u need to get u a better friend. Before this one gets u in trouble. Take care.
2006-07-11 12:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man I still had dolls when I was 13. I will tell you that if you don't wait for the right person to do that with, it will be something that you regret when the right one does come along. I didn't save my self, and I wish I would have so that I could have shared that experience with the person that I truly love.
2006-07-11 12:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by javajunkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By IT I presume you mean sex?
13 is waaaaay too young. At 13 you're only beginning to learn about relationships and what you want and what you need.
Only when you know that and can find someone who can provide that to you will you be ready to do it.
2006-07-11 12:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely a bad idea! Respect and take care of your body and soul. Young men are not ready for the emotional committment and young girls are not physically nor emotionally ready....plus the complication of pregnancy, aids, clamidia, cervical cancer, herpes. Try reading a good book or playing basketball..much less complicated
2006-07-11 12:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋