ok, so i just went to sixflags with my friend and her friends from her church. along with her friends that i met, i met the kid she really likes. and he is so adorable and i was talking to him a lot and im starting to like him kinda. and he kept walking with me and a good amount of the rides i went on i was next to him or pretty close. the thing is my friend really really likes him and i dunno if i should tell her or what should i do.
help??
2006-07-11 11:51:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what you souldnt feel bad that your starting to like him. It human for us to start getting feelings for people we get drawn to. I think if you guys went out that would be lots of fun. or maybe he was just being close to you cause he wanted to get to know you and maybe he wants to start off at a friend level for right now. Guys are really hard to read and I wouldnt take anything seriously. but just have fun getting to know him and just being yourself. If something does get out of it. yah your friend is going to get a little mad cause she liked him too. But true friends get over themselves and what they want. and will be happy for you and that things are going okay. and if she doesnt then she isnt a really good friend
2006-07-11 12:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Hey, you know what's going on! Leave your "friend's" boyfriend alone. Don't be a "shady..lady!...friend;-(
Your friendship with her will last a lot longer than the 2 weeks he "might" spend liking you. If, you don't believe me go for the guy. And when you get him host a party and invite him, that friend and some of your other cute girlfriends and your cute sister too (really test him invite a cute gay guy too). Then you will see what he is really like....I got $5 that say's he will dump you in 2 weeks max! Or is it that wants to get whatever your friend has just because you can? How would you feel if your friend did that to you. Oh, heck go ahead do it then we can watch you all on the Jerry Springer!
2006-07-11 19:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by KC31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you want to see a friendship end because you are hitting on yer friends guy that she saw first and likes?!? IF you tell her you risk upsetting her, hurting her feelings and probably losing her as a friend. So, you need to decide whats more important. You dont want to be known as a slut or something for moving in on a guy your friend likes.
2006-07-11 19:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by herbie36f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
I would suggest that u respect ur friends interest and let go. Had u been the first to say u liked him, or if u didnt know that your friend liked him as well, then yes, u can express how u feel to your friend.
But now that she knows, best to let go.
2006-07-11 18:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend really likes him (and first) you should back away and see where their relationship goes. Then, if he is not interested, etc., ask her how she feels if you go out with him. Your friends are forever where as he may only be around a few months.
2006-07-11 18:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u have to make sure of how u feel about him first, then u have to be honest with ur friend, u don't want her thinking something shady is going on here, don't mislead her, she is ur friend afterall, he's not her bf so it's all good but like, she does like him so u have to be aware of that, all i can say is that don't hide it from her, be honest and if she gets mad it's understandable but if she's ur friend then she should also want to be happy for u, she'll either get over it or get over u
2006-07-11 18:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she liked him first (and said so b4 you met him), it isn't a good idea to risk your friendship over a guy. However, if you like him, you ought to tell her. If you have a fight over it and she doesn't understand, she may not be a true friend.
2006-07-11 18:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you think he likes you and see what she says...
She will say, "well, you should go for him..."
And when she does, she is really saying, "if you go for him, i'm soooo not going to be your friend anymore..."
You're stuck between a rock and a really hard place, good luck.
2006-07-11 18:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by drifterr11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me I would tell your friend that you like him and tell the guy that you like and then you three get together and talk (that is what I did and it worked)
2006-07-11 18:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by jony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your friend likes this guy - you are a horrible friend for getting so friendly with him!
2006-07-11 18:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋