2006-07-11 11:43:48 · 23 answers · asked by ottedoug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
But I here so much bad things about him. He is an *** from what iv seen him do to her. it so far not phaskily
2006-07-11 11:51:25 · update #1
But I here so much bad things about him. He is an *** from what iv seen him do to her. it so far not phaskily
2006-07-11 11:51:28 · update #2
back off and them have the relationship.. if they loved you or wanted you they would be with you. You wouldnt want someone trying to steal your mate from you, would you??
2006-07-11 11:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by answerqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Prettyinpink... if you luv someone, you have to let them know. Otherwise you'll regret it forever. And she might like you, but never knew you did.
You don't have to be blunt and just say "I love you and always have..." because it might put her in an awkward position if she's with someone else right now.
But give her signals to let her know you like her... it can be subtle, or be flirtatious. Let her know. Maybe one day you can just tell her (when it feels right). If she doesn't have the same feelings, *then* you move on and respect her feelings and relationship. If you love her, you'd just want her to be happy.
But you don't want to miss out on love just because the timing is not right (meaning she's with someone now). If you do that, you deprive yourself of happiness, and maybe even her of true happiness.
PS - it's never a good idea to give advice on love; so take it for what it's worth. Do what makes you happy.
2006-07-11 11:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by bfong999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out or give up. no sense in getting yourself involved, only to be hurt later... possibly. maybe throw some words out there to show the interest, but for sure dont have feelings yet. See what the others response is, and go from there. The last thing you need is a person who is content with themselves in "whatever the relationship is" and you coming in to make the feel undecided. They might mess up there current situation only to find out they dont really like either of the people...
hmm, is that confusing? haha
2006-07-11 11:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all I can tell you is that you can't change your feelings for this person but you can't really act on it with out coming across in a negative way.
If you care about this person don't stop loving them. If they are happy be happy that they are happy. If you and this person are truly ment for each other you will be together in the end but don't try and force his/her hand. let them be for now. BUT IF THEY BREAK UP DO NOT GO FOR THE REBOUND! and no matter what the other answers say...NO spanking monkies!
2006-07-11 11:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Teen Talking2teens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too be honest you have a couple of things that you can do. 1) you could forget him/her 2) you could let him/her know of your feelings (do not act on them just tell the person that you have feelings for them) just to keep your communication open. My suggestion would to be honest....to just forget liking this person tho as there are too many breakup due to home wreckers. Dont be one and maybe down the road this person will be on his or her own and you can let them know how you feel if you still feel about them the way you do now.
2006-07-11 11:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Them How You Feel And Hope For The Best
2006-07-11 11:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not an easy anwser but the bottem line is that they'er already in a committment, and some times it isn't easy to do but be happy for them, if it was going to be it would, and luck and faith have a weird way of showing you what is still in store for the future.
2006-07-11 11:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Richard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love a person even if that person is not with you.... Loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with them... If you really love that person, you'll be happy if that someone is happy with the person he/she's with. Just don't let that love you feel for that person grow stronger.... Accept it that he's with someone else and move on... meet your match.....
2006-07-11 11:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by :) Ken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo dont get over it. dont listen to that girl that said that.
you have to not give up if you really love that person and you feel its right dont let it slips away even if you think the chances are 0 keep trying and tell the person how you feel and good luck
2006-07-11 11:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on. If you really love someone, and they are happy with someone else, the most loving thing you could do is to let them go.
2006-07-11 11:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Annie's World 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋