Did I do the right thing?

Question

my friend came over just a little bit ago. When she rang the doorbell, I didn't answer. She stayed at the door for about ten minutes. Then she started to walk away. Right as she was at my neighbors house, she turned and looked at my kitchen window. Unfortunately, She saw me.

I think I did the right thing but I needed your help. The reason(if you're wondering) why I didn't answer the door, is because she has completely changed. She was a blonde some time ago. But now she has black hair with brown and blue highlights. She never wore make-up and now all she waers is black lipstick and black eyeshadow. She also ignored me for seven months and now thinks we're as close of friends as we were before. So I really really need your help people!HEEEEEELP MEEEEEE!!!!

Answer 1

Ignoring the problem won't fix it, witch is what your doing, avoiding her. As we grow we change, we go through different stages and try different things, but the basic things that make us who we are, don't often change as dramatic as one might think, sure from blond to brown and blue hair, might be drastic, but maybe she is just trying to get some attention, good or bad. It may not be the best way to get attention or to tell someone they need some thing, but maybe she's not good at saying things. See maybe you are someone she's always trusted, and always known to be a good friend, and now she is seeking you out and you just may have let her down. This is what I think, real friends should be honest. Maybe you should apologies for the way you acted, and tell her why you did it. Tell her that you are concerned about her drastic changes, and that she hurt you when she ignored you for the last several months. If you can't come to terms with her, then maybe friendship isn't the answer, but at least you were honest with her.

Answer 2

Other than her appearance has she changed? Perhaps the changes are an indication that she needs a friend now more than ever.

What are you afraid of? You can always tell her at any time that the freindship has changed and that you don't feel close to her anymore. Why not test it out before you decide?

Answer 3

Never be so proud to your friends. She must know that she did something wrong in your relationship. You always gotta forgive your friends, because we all making mistakes that we later blaming ourselves for. Call her, and invite her to your house and have a serious decent talk to her. Try to get to positive conclusion. I wish you to stay in good terms with your friend.

Answer 4

i think that u should of answered the door or u are as low as her but you should talk to her about it not blow her off she was ur friend at one time..

Answer 5

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