He's very good looking and he keeps hitting on me when my husband isn't around...i'm very tempted to have an affair with him....but my husband is a very nice man, i'm afraid if he finds out it will hurt him. What should I do?
2006-07-11 11:27:38 · 34 answers · asked by sexygirlnary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why, why, why would you even think of doing something like that?? You say your husband is a good man, why would you want to hurt him so deeply? Not only by sleeping with someone else, but also sleeping with his brother. Don't have an affair, believe me, you will NEVER EVER EVER forgive yourself if you do. NEVER.
2006-07-11 14:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The choices we have in life how tough does it have to be to make a decision like this...You have two brothers one you husband and is very nice...The other is very good looking...
Well you need to do them both at the same time then you will have a very good looking nice man...
2006-07-11 12:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the marriage, and have a ball. It don't sound like you are in love with your husband to even consider cheating on him, least of all with his flesh & blood. He deserves better. Especially if he's a good man.
2006-07-11 12:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you even ask if its ok when you know it isnt. its wrong. and you shouldnt do it. first of all, that's his brother... at least keep it out of the family...
you shouldnt of gotten married if you werent ready to commit to one man! i feel sorry for your husband. he can do sooo much better than you. he can have someone in his life who respects him and loves him... and doesnt fantasize about anyone else but him.
hope you do the right thing... even if it is being single again... cause you are obviously not ready to be in a relationship.
2006-07-11 11:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it would hurt your husband!! What are you thinking to cheat like that on him. You should tell his brother to back off completely or you will tell your husband and his mother!! Geeez!! I can't believe you would have to ask such a question. Karen
2006-07-11 11:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Karen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Would you want your husband to have an affair with anyone??
2006-07-11 11:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by hello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant possibly be serious. What part of any of that situation do you think is ok? 1)Its your Husband 2)Its his brother. Oh my God, divorce him now. Be a slut when youre single.
2006-07-11 11:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's wrong. If he's trying to have an affair with you, tell your husband.
2006-07-11 11:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by xxtra chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here you answer for u. don't do it are u crazy sounds like your husband is a nice man why would u throw your marriage always for a one night stand. his is your husband brother.
2006-07-11 12:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid or something? give your head a shake girl....your husband's brother?...any man other than your husband is off limits. Otherwise have a good lawyer handy.
2006-07-11 11:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by bom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋