2006-07-11 11:19:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you are pregnant, your mom will find out anyway. Just explain to her the situation and I'm sure (after the dust settles) that you will be able to go to a doctor much easier and perhaps who is better than one who you could go to 'secretly'.
2006-07-11 11:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by LilMikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to a doctor or a clinic without your mom knowing if you really feel you must. But let me give you some advice you didn't ask for. Unless your mother is physically abusive to you and you are afraid she will hurt you if you tell her, then suck it up and just tell her. If she's just going to be mad, she'll get over it. Trust me. You need her right now, and her love for you will be stronger than her disappointment over this. Think of this, if you are pregnant, you will have to do a lot of growing up fast. And the most grown up thing you can do for yourself and any possible baby is to act adult about it: sit mom down and tell her you have made a mistake and need her help and understanding. Good luck to you.
2006-07-11 18:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to your doctor/gynecologist, they can not disclose medical info without your consent. Buy a home pregnancy test or go to planned parenthood. You are not a child at 17 just tell your mom you may be pregnant and need to be tested, nothing she can do and if you are she'll find out eventually.
2006-07-12 08:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before that, check if you really are pregnant, a simple home test is available in the market to be done with urine(Ask your boy friend to purchase it)
If it shows positive reveal to MOM,Mummy always help their children and consult your Doctor immediately to do any procedure.
Lastly: Promise yourself that you will never involve into sex before marriage as the abortion is life threatning or will lead you childless.
So take care dear and don't do any deed for which you have to repent for whole life.
2006-07-11 18:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Taurian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best and safest thing to do is to tell your mom. I know it's going to be hard but just think of how upset your mom would be if you sneak behind her back.Because I'm pretty sure she didn't give you permission to have sex and possibly even told you that if you ever were in trouble that you can come to here and you have broken her trust, so now would be the best time to regain your mother's trust and show her that you know that you can come to her when you're in trouble.She may take it better then you think she will. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-11 18:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by kiss4virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your exact situation but unless your mom is abusive, please, please tell her. Once she gets over her initial shock, she will probably be most supportive. I have a daughter and if she were frightened or in trouble, I pray she'd come to me first. Also, you should be able to go to your usual doctor. They should have your insurance info on file, and can see you without your mom knowing. There are also free clinics in most towns that offer free pregnancy testing and prenatal care. I hope that helps. If for some reason you consider abortion please have an ultrasound first and do online research http://www.abortiontruth.com is a good website with personal testimonies of women that have had abortions. God Bless and Good Luck!
2006-07-11 18:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Miss G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the name of your doctor, make an appointment and tell her that you're going out with friends on the day of the appointment. However, if you find out you are pregnant, you'll have to tell her. But if not, it's okay to lie about checking it out with a doctor b/c it would just make her worry.
2006-07-11 18:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor. Tell your mom that you need your annual physical and tell the doctor that you need a pregnancy test. You can always tell her that you are really sick and need to go.
2006-07-11 18:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by sarah a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best option now for u is to confirm it rather than having a doubt and u need to do it at the earlieat so first get a home preganancy test done and god forbid if it is postive plz confide in ur mom and she will certainly help
2006-07-11 19:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to Planned Parenthood. They are totally confidential and professional and can offer you help with your pregnancy or decisions about your pregnancy. They will also offer you birth control if you are not pregnant. Good luck
2006-07-11 18:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Amy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋